Why trying to be emotional and an open book with a woman you’re dating will make her think you are a wussy, instead of a man who goes for and gets what he wants. Why bringing up drama, heavy subjects and confessing all of your flaws, faults and sins will lead to a woman blowing you off.
In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a viewer who believed what he saw on TV and in the movies. Only 3 or 4 dates in, she asks him when the last time was that he cried. He preceded to assume it was time to “be an open book” for her. Not a good idea obviously. How do I know? She kept texting him for several days one BS excuse after another why she was busy, suddenly had to go out of town, etc., but that she would call him. A week later… only the sound of crickets.
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