I’m Pro Vax. My Girlfriend Is Anti-Vax. Can It Work?

How to know if your relationship can work if you don’t agree on vaccines for your kids.

In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a viewer who’s pro vax. His girlfriend is anti-vax. He wants their potential kids to get at least the minimum vaccinations to attend school, etc., and delay ones he deems unnecessary. He asks how to bring it up and when to bring it up. She’s 37 and he’s 34. He’s surprised she hasn’t brought it up yet and is convinced that he’s right and she’s wrong. My comments are in bold italics like this below in the body of his email.

Hi, I’m Coach Corey Wayne and this is my Video Coaching Newsletter. And the topic of today’s Newsletter is going to be, “I’m Pro Vax. My Girlfriend Is Anti-Vax. Can It Work?”.

Well, in order for any relationship to work, you’ve got to have similar goals, and most importantly, you’ve got to have similar values, especially when it comes to raising kids. One of the biggest reasons why marriages end or a relationship ends is because the two people disagree on religion or how they’re going to raise their kids. They just don’t see eye to eye.

So if you’re at the point where this guy is, his girlfriend is 37, he’s 34, obviously her biological clock is going to run out in a few years. And so she’s going to need to either have kids with this guy or break up and go find somebody else she can have kids with because she’s going to run out of time. He obviously can wait because he’s a guy we can pretty much have kids our whole entire lives.

And so the guy, which is interesting enough, he is pro-vax, obviously, and she’s like anti-vax, obviously, you know, just looking at all the things that happen, especially with the Covid shenanigans, all the safe and effective nonsense. And then come to find out, none of that stuff was even tested. And then now that Secretary Kennedy is in and he’s going through all their files, he’s found thousands of instances where they did tests and they did studies on vaccines, studying things like injuries, autism, and other ailments.

Because he’s like, “Why are people so sickly these days compared to 40, 50 years ago? And we had 2 or 3 vaccinations.” It’s like when I was a kid growing up, I didn’t know anybody that had autism. It’s just like nobody had it. And now it’s like one out of 30, one out of 25 I think gets gets autism. Whereas, you know, 40, 50 years ago it was one out of like 20 something thousand. So it’s like something is off.

And so Secretary Kennedy and the CDC have gone through and basically said, ideally, you shouldn’t dump a bunch of vaccines into a little kid all at once. You should space it out. Vaccines like the hepatitis vaccine, which is a sexually transmitted disease. You know, it’s unnecessary for an infant to be getting those they’ve come out and said.

But the other thing you’ve got to understand is the doctors are financially incentivized to get you on that vaccine schedule. And I think it’s something like close to 70, 80 vaccines now that they recommend for kids, which is insane. And when you look at Fauci, I mean, in my opinion, based on what Fauci has done, is that that guy should be charged for crimes against humanity and executed for what he’s done.

He’s not a good person. I mean, there’s a video you can watch of Kary Mullins, who this was in the 1990s talking about Fauci and what an idiot he was and how incompetent he was and what a buffoon he was, and he’s just not a scientist. He’s not a real doctor, and he has no idea what he’s talking about. Kary Mullins is the guy that invented the PCR test.

And so the PCR tests were how basically people determined that they had Covid. And he said you could basically based upon the sensitivity, you can make it say anything you wanted to. And so that was interesting when you see the video the actual scientists that invented the technology that Fauci was using, talking about how Fauci’s an idiot.

And then you got Secretary Kennedy going through all of these different studies that they did at the NIH. They’re looking, like one of the studies in particular that he talked about and testified in Congress, he said they did a study and looked at black kids and families where the kid’s parents followed the vaccine schedule as it was, versus parents that delayed the vaccinations and the parents that delayed the vaccinations.

Or I should say the parents that vaccinated their kids according to the schedule had like over 200% higher incidence of autism and other issues, whereas the parents that spaced it out and delayed the vaccinations until the kids were a little older. It was significantly reduced. It was like almost nonexistent.

So it’s pretty obvious there’s a connection there. And then there’s that. And they were talking about, you know, Tylenol and certain things because some of the chemicals that are in Tylenol, there are certain things you shouldn’t take it with. I mean, obviously you should check the CDC website and what their findings are, but when they went through all the history of things, it was pretty clear that they came across evidence when they did these studies that was not good.

In other words, you know, links between like what’s causing autism. When they got data and they got studies that presented evidence that they didn’t like they basically ordered their underlings to destroy the evidence and delete it. And it was pretty clear through some of the emails that they didn’t want to create a paper trail because of freedom of information requests.

So they would say, “Hey, let’s talk about this offline. Let’s not email each other about it because then it creates a trail and people can find out what we did basically.” And so you got pretty corrupt people that were working at the NIH and the CDC, and they knew there were problems with these things, but they basically covered it up.

And you know, I don’t know what’s going to happen legally with all that. But, you know, they’ve since come out and revised the vaccine schedule to be more like Europe’s, which I think is, I don’t know, 11 or 12 vaccines. But when you look at that and you look at everything they have with Covid and all the lying and all the dishonesty and like all the kids vaccines with what Secretary Kennedy said was they didn’t do placebo trials.

In other words, a placebo is like a saline solution or a pill that has nothing in it. And so some kids get the actual vaccine and other kids or medicine, whatever happens to be, and other kids just get the placebo to see what the difference is. And it was never done. And Senator Kennedy or I should say Senator Kennedy, Secretary Kennedy ended up suing Fauci, because Fauci said that he was lying.

And then in court, Fauci came clean because he didn’t want to commit perjury and saying, “Yeah, we didn’t actually do any placebo trials.” But meanwhile, he’s telling the whole world, “Oh yeah, we did all this stuff. They’re safe and effective.” And he didn’t do any of it. He didn’t do any testing. And you think, how is that possible? How can a guy in that position all those decades just be lying through his teeth about things.

So they weren’t really safe and effective. They just weren’t even tested. And so you look at that, and you look at the fact that doctors get financially incentivized from the vaccine companies the more vaccines they give, the bigger the bonuses for them. That’s not a good situation to have. People are financially incentivized, it’s they don’t really care. So you’ve got to be self-reliant.

You’ve got to take all that stuff into consideration, that there was a lot of lying and there’s a lot of dishonesty. I mean, I have clients that work in the vaccine industry, and they told me themselves that the quality control during the lockdowns and all those vaccines was shit. It was terrible.

So some people got overdosed, some people got underdosed and some people got dosed at the correct levels. And so there are batches of vaccines that were well or were done right, and other batches were terrible, and people had a lot of side effects and death from it. And that’s all come out in congressional testimony since then. It’s been discussed in the media and it’s like when you’ve got all that stuff out there, there’s a lot of fuckery.

So you have to assume that it’s better to err on the side of caution. And this is what Secretary Kennedy, the NIH and the CDC has come out and said that it’s better to spread these things out, err on the side of caution, wait till your kids are a little older, because again, the studies that they had that were buried show that it’s best to delay these things.

And, you know, when you dump a bunch of chemicals into little babies and little kids, it causes a lot of problems. I mean, they have the data to back that up. But it’s unconscionable what these people did. I mean, they should be charged for crimes against humanity for what they did because they fucked millions of people up. And that’s just a fact. That’s the reality. So with that in mind, we’ve got this couple here. She’s 37, he’s 34. And he’s wondering how he should bring this conversation up.

Viewer Email:

Hi Corey,

I’ve been a fan of your work for a couple years. I have gone through and continue to go through your book all the time, estimated at around 10 plus reads now and has been a great help for me in counteracting my default impulses to over pursue etc. I have a question for you that is a bit different from the usual ones you receive.

I’ve been dating my girlfriend for about 9 months. Everything is going great. She pursues me essentially 100 percent of the time. I make concrete dates, and see her around 3 times a week. I’m too busy to see her more. She invests a lot in the relationship, and we have a great healthy dynamic.

My current predicament is that we have differences in terms of vaccines for kids. She is anti-vax, whereas I would want my kids to have the main ones that are required to go to school/play sports etc. I am willing to be flexible. Delay schedule, forego certain ones that I deem unnecessary like Hep B etc.

My questions are: how would you go about having this conversation in best way possible? I want to go in and completely understand her viewpoint but really establish if is she is open to navigating this or if it’s a deal breaker altogether. She knows I would want my kids to have the main ones as I have not seen evidence that it’s safer to forego them.

Well, maybe you should listen to Secretary Kennedy, because there’s been a lot of stuff that’s come out in the last year since he took over. And he’s been involved in this stuff for many decades. And you’re not an expert, he is. And especially when you take into account all the stuff that I just shared. He said there were thousands of instances where they did studies, and they found links between autism and other things, that they just buried the studies because it wasn’t good for the vaccine industry.

And a lot of times, like Fauci had patents and he got financially incentivized to make money on the vaccine. So he just buried the studies. Those people should be prosecuted. Probably nothing’s going to ever come of it, but you should probably get caught up on current events and what’s been going on, because it’s pretty shocking what has since come out since he took over.

I’m actually surprised that she hasn’t brought this up to me as she is a little older, she’s 37, I’m 34. My other question is do you think it’s too early to have this chat?

Anyways, thanks for your work, it’s been a great help for me.

Bob

Well, as a man, you should do the honorable thing, which is to bring it up now just considering the fact she’s 37. Because you need to figure out whether this is going to be a deal breaker for your relationship or not. To see if you can come to a meeting of the minds. And you can’t be an arrogant jackass thinking you’re a know it all. Because, you know, typically people that are pro-vax tend to lean left.

And what I’ve experienced with my own friends and family that lean left is that, especially the last five, ten years, they think they’re a know it all and everything. And so you need to suspend your beliefs about things and look into all the congressional testimony and especially the things that Secretary Kennedy has talked about. He just did a podcast with Joe Rogan in the last month, and I highly recommend that you watch that because they discussed this stuff at length, and it’s shocking.

And if you care about your children, you’re going to obviously want to do what’s going to put them in the best possible situation as possible regarding their health. We know based on the data, that delaying vaccines as long as possible is better for the kids. It’s just better because statistically, the sooner you do it, especially when you dump a lot of that shit in there, it has a lot of bad side effects. That’s just a fact of life.

So as Confucius said, “Real knowledge is to know the extent of one’s ignorance.” And it’s obvious everything that we’ve been told is not essentially 100% accurate when it comes to this stuff. People were financially incentivized and the people that were the gatekeepers of the information at the NIH, the CDC, Doctor Fauci and his wife, you know, Doctor Fauci’s wife was supposed to be the one to make sure that Fauci and everybody else was doing the right thing.

I mean, that’s a total conflict of interest there. But, you know, that’s why he I think he lives in Italy or somewhere in Europe, because everybody in the United States hates him. He can’t go anywhere because people absolutely hate his ass. There’s a reason for that. A lot of people got fucked up. My own family got fucked up on his stupidity and his incompetence and his evil.

So again, you should be willing to be open to listen to what Secretary Kennedy has to say, because he’s the only person who’s come along in my lifetime and wanted to know what the hell is the cause of the fact that people are so sickly and our society and have so many different ailments and allergies and things like that, that just, you know, 50 years ago it was a non-issue. Like I said, growing up, I didn’t know one single person that had autism.

And now you know, like I said, it’s like one out of 26, one out of 30, I can’t remember what the numbers are, but it’s like, it’s shocking how many kids get it. And I’ve got members of my own family that have it. And, you know, in one particular instance, they’re doctors and they did everything according to the schedule. And now both of their kids are dying of cancer in their 20s. Something’s fucked up.

So, like I said, as Confucius said, “Real knowledge is to know the extent of one’s ignorance.” It’ll be interesting to see if, you know, I’m even available to have this Video on YouTube or they take it down. I had one a year ago that they took down and deleted. You just weren’t even allowed to talk about this stuff in the past. So I think it’s a little better now, but we’ll see what happens when I upload this. So if you guys are watching this, well, hey, maybe things have changed a little bit and we can have these conversations now because before you weren’t even allowed to have the conversation, the video would just get removed.

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