I’m Sure She’s Seeing Another Dude

What to do when your long term girlfriend suddenly becomes cold, distant and starts saying things like “I need time,” “I need to figure this out,” and you suspect she is seeing another dude.

In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a viewer who has been dating a woman for over ten years. For the past three years they have been fighting over her desire to get married. Now that he is ready for her to move in with him, she is telling him that she needs time and needs to figure things out.

She is devious about where she is and is not at work when she says she is. He thinks she’s seeing another dude. He’s pretty sure it’s over, but that she is trying to let him down easy. He asks my opinion.

“It’s always best to to trust in yourself, your heart and your intuition. No one knows you better than you do. When you try to make your decisions based upon the opinions and feelings of others instead of what your heart is compelling you to do, you are giving your power away and not trusting that you know what’s best for you. It’s impossible for others to truly know what’s in your heart. When we make decisions for ourselves that are aligned with our heart, even if they create pain for us in the short term, we enable the universe to meet our needs effortlessly in the future. When we try to hold on to what no longer feels right, we inhibit the dissolution of circumstances and relationships that no longer serve us. This delays the manifestation of people and circumstances that are in our highest interest and of greater value and benefit to our overall well being and happiness.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne