How to finally start living again after the end of a marriage or a long-term relationship so you can have a social life full of ease, delight, effortlessness and choice with the kind of women you’ve always wanted.
In this video coaching newsletter, I discuss an email from a viewer who is thirty-seven and found my work after the end of his thirteen year marriage. He says he’s finally started living again and is focusing on being the best version of himself. He’s taking great care of his body, and he says he’s starting to look like a stud. He also shares that he is getting laid more than James Bond in all of his movies. He talks about the moment things really started to change for him where women were scarce in his life, to how things are now, where he is sometimes hooking up with women, and he doesn’t even remember their names. He talks about what he says and does differently, how he is constantly meeting new women who approach him first, and how he has women volunteer and offer to have threesomes with him and their hot girlfriends. The best part is, he goes out by himself, and is his own wingman.
I’ve emailed you before, and I’ve kept on reading your book and watching your videos every day. After being with my ex-wife for thirteen years, I have finally started living again. Right now I’m 37, but I am starting to look like a fucking stud. (Good for you. You’re focusing on yourself and taking care of your body. The more attractive and sexy you feel, it will show in your body and facial expressions and make you more approachable to women. The more women that notice you, the more choices you will have.) Not only that, but by following a lot of your advice, I am getting laid more than James Bond in all of his movies. Sometimes, I just send a simple message saying, “Hey, I like you. If you’re free, let’s meet some time.” After a few days, I get a response every single time. When I start ignoring them or act like I just don’t give a fuck if they respond, they always respond. (Most women have lots of choices, so they will want the man who acts the most mysterious, most masculine, most manly, most charming and most sure of himself.) Most of my friends are settled, so I started going to random bars alone. The first week, I didn’t get shit and with online dating, same story, but right now I just watch people as they get drunk, and drink some myself too. I do a bit of the simple touching when I talk to them, just keeping my distance and acting like I’m fine if they walk away to someone else. (He has total indifference. He expresses his interest, and if they’re not enthusiastically receptive, it’s no big deal.) It’s their loss, and right now I really think that way the moment I turn down some of the hottest women in those bars. Man, that’s where it started to change. I get girls aged 18 to 28 literally at my feet. Like last week, I was talking outside with two girls about marriage and Christianity, and was like “Yeah, I love how you can find happiness in marriage with God, and you get my blessings marrying that guy in April, but I don’t agree with marriage, as I’ve experienced something else.” I swear five minutes later after I ordered a beer, she almost fucked me against the bar, but it was closing time so the lights came on. That moment, I was with my hands in my hair thinking, what the hell am I doing? The bartender and I were discussing my mistake, I went outside, and then I denied a threesome with two hot chicks, and ended up kissing one. I knew they were testing me. She took me home. I swear, most of the time, I don’t even know their names. The moment a girl tells me she’s bisexual, I just act like I don’t give a fuck because this is the third time someone has said that same story in just two weeks. (If you’re used to hearing that, it’s not a big deal. This guy is acting like a guy who has options.) Usually, I would go all up in their bisexual stuff and act like a horny teenager, but now I just say, “Nah, I don’t need a threesome. I get threesomes.” Yesterday, a girl I had already forgotten about texted me, asking me if I wanted to chill with her and a friend.
Man, thank you. Really, really, thank you! (Thanks for being awesome, and thanks for creating the kind of life that you want. You will impact every man and woman you encounter in a positive way.)
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“One of the most empowering, enlightening, amazing and successful mindsets that a man who wants to be more successful in life and with women can adopt, is one of being indifferent, carefree, happy, bold, courageous, charming and unattached to any outcome or desire. Most men would love to be more successful with women, in their career and in life, but they are not because they have consciously or unconsciously adopted an inferior, scarcity mindset. A scarcity mindset is rooted in fear and causes them to chase, to try and force things, and to act unworthy of their desires and dreams. Successful men who adopt an abundance mentality already have too many choices and options and are forced to be selective with who they allow into their lives and spend their time with. This causes them to appear to other people who are looking for what they have as being highly valuable, scarce and also causes them to make an extra effort to get their attention and time.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne