Why knowledge is only potential power when attracting women & how to apply yourself in a directed & focused way to improve your success with women. Unfortunately, men are not taught in school how they should properly handle their interactions with women. So unless you came from a healthy family, there is a good chance there is some area of your pickup, dating or relationship game where you have a knowledge gap that can only be closed with repetition and experience using skills and techniques that work. I constantly stress in my articles the need to practice what I teach in order to get better. The following is an e-mail from a reader who is new to my work. He has a lot of friends and is very popular. However, with the ladies he always seems to get stuck in friends zone. He wants to know what he should do to start making dates with some of these women instead of being looked upon as a guy to only be friends with. My comments on are (in bold brackets like this) in the body of his e-mail:
I have recently read your book “How to become a 3% Man” and I enjoyed it. I was wondering if it would be possible for you to give me some more personal advice. (If you really want to take your success to the next level, book a private phone coaching session with me personally by CLICKING HERE.) I am entering my second year of college. I am extremely outgoing, am very well known and have a ton of friends. However, I don’t have that much success with the ladies. (That is because you have never applied yourself in a directed and focused way applying what I teach to start to become successful with the ladies. Repetition is the mother of skill. My book gives you the baseline knowledge and a plan of how to implement it. If you play sports, you know you only get better thru practice right? Practice makes perfect. You don’t have to be great to start, but you have to start… in order to become great! If you’ve read my book, then the first step is to improve your social skills. Get busy. Also, you should start focusing on your goals. The more successful you become living the life and lifestyle of your dreams, the more successful you will become with women. Women love driven, self-motivated men who charge fearlessly in the direction of their greatest goals and dreams. Becoming successful with women is a byproduct of feeling successful as a man and becoming the success you’ve always dreamed of.) Part of it is that since I am so outgoing and friendly I am quickly friend-zoned and not looked upon seriously. (You’re probably acting too nice. Nice guys finish last.) What are some substantial ways I can change this? (Start focusing on relentlessly pursuing your goals and dreams as you practice meeting & dating as many new women as you can to improve your skills of seduction.) Especially in an American university setting today? (Imperfect action is better than no action at all. Get busy practicing, it’s the only way you will get better! You can download the Amazon Kindle version of my book to your Smartphone, PC, Mac or iPad in under 60 seconds for only $9.99 by CLICKING HERE to learn how to meet and date the type of women you’ve always wanted and have effortless relationships.) Any help would be much appreciated.
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