How to handle situations where you meet someone who you have great chemistry with, but the only problem is that they are long distance and you can only talk via Skype video chat and not see each other very often in person.
How to determine if it’s worth it to pursue a long distance relationship or just try and find someone who lives near you. How to maintain attraction over long distance in-between times where you can see each other physically in person.
In this video coaching newsletter I discuss two emails from two different viewers. One of them met a woman online from his country while he was deployed overseas. He wants to know how to maintain her attraction over several months as he won’t be back home anytime soon and has noticed that she seems to be less interested than before. The other is from a guy who lives over an hour away from a woman he just met.
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“Long distance relationships can be very tricky to maintain attraction when you can’t see each other in person very often. With video Skype you can talk to and see the other person along with their facial expressions almost as if they were physically with you in person. However, the risk you run is to talk too much electronically to the point that you get bored with one another. Once you are bored, there is less of a desire to see each other physically in person. The key is to give women the time and space to miss you, fantasize about you and let them do 70-80% of the initiating contact. Women are more attracted to men whose feelings are unclear and if you let them reach out to you most of the time, then you never have to worry about contacting them too much to the point that they lose interest. Just like in show business, you always want to leave them wanting more. If you can’t make dates to see each other in person, you can make Skype video dates you both can look forward to. Having something to look forward to builds anticipation.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne
guy says
Hey just to add to this topic, met a girl in summer from abroad who was doing a work placement for college here. Had a whirlwind romance type thing for a month, basically could not have gone better.
Been in contact on facebook since, had a skype date recently. My question is how long should these skype dates be?
It went well and I was enjoying seeing and hearing her, she was holding a teddy bear i sent her for christmas the whole time (she had sent me gifts also).
After about twenty minutes or just over that the talking stopped for a few seconds and I couldn’t think of a decent question or topic to get her talking so I said I had to go and I might see her on facebook sometime….
Its a sunday so she knows i’m not at work but i didn’t tell her what it was i had to leave for (i lied, i’m free all sunday.)
For me it hurt to close contact like that so soon, for her having set aside the time and waited all week for the date i wonder did I cut it too short, and did that shortness make it anti-climactic or something.
We both miss each other but after reading your book i was mindful the whole time that i should be the one to end it first but i’m wondering now did i panic and close contact too soon or did i do the right thing.
So back to my basic question. How long should a skype date be?
Do you agree on how long it should be beforehand, or do you just meet and hope that you are the one to end it first?
Jenny says
Coach, in general I agree with what you say, but “Women are more attracted to men whose feelings are unclear” does not ring true in the long-run with me, a woman. I tend to drop off the face of the earth for those who after some time are always unsure of what is going on inside them when asked.
For example, my love only grew each time my ex-fiancee told me he loved me. When he stopped being straightforward after starting a new job was when it started to feel like I was walking eggshells all the time (my love – my choice to love – stayed the same). It turned out he had been seeing another woman. 🙁
Perhaps I’m not the average, but I need things clearer than a crystal.