You must love others in ways so that they feel free to be themselves and be who they really are. If someone senses that they will lose their freedom to be who they are when they are around you, they won’t want to stay around you for very long.
In this video coaching newsletter I answer an email from a woman whose boyfriend dumped her a month ago without notice or any explanation. She has not heard from him nor has he returned any of her phone calls. This was after a two year relationship, but she did notice the last time together that he was acting different. She is having a hard time getting over what happened and writes me asking why.