Men Who Don’t Act Like Men

Why men who don’t act like men get rejected and often become cynical due to their lack of success with attracting the women they want. How to change your attitude and change your life so you can create the kind of life and lifestyle you’ve always wanted with the kind of women you deserve.

In this video coaching newsletter I discuss two emails from different viewers. In the first email the viewer met a woman through an online dating website. After two months he feels that they are very close since they talk every night on the phone. The only problem is that every time he tries to set a date to meet for their first date, she has an excuse as to why she is too busy.

In the second email the viewer has a terrible attitude towards women and has similar problems by taking a creepy and phony approach by being friends instead of communicating his true desires. Out of his desire to avoid rejection, he chooses to mask his attraction by fraudulently saying he wants to be friends. He tends to act like he’s dating them even though the women think he’s only interested in friendship. He even got fired from his job as a bouncer in a night club after a woman complained about his controlling and creepy ways.

“When we lack knowledge of what to do to achieve the outcomes we want, fear we aren’t good enough or fear that we won’t be loved and accepted, this leads to anger and frustration. When you feel yourself becoming fearful, anxious, angry or unsure, ask yourself, “What knowledge or experience do I feel I presently lack that is causing me to move into this un-resourceful and weak state?” Then, instead of becoming angry, uncentered and frustrated, become excited that you are about to learn something you did not know or gain experience you did not have that will make you an even stronger and more skilled person. Happiness and success are a state of mind that arises from the actions you take and the meanings you give things.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne