Never Trust Deceptive Women

Here’s why you should never trust or stay in exclusive relationships with women who lie & who are deceptive. I learned this lesson the hard way. It is imperative that you learn to be objective when you are in the dating process and especially when you feel yourself falling in love with a woman you are dating. Otherwise, you risk getting into a relationship with a woman you totally love, but who has absolutely no integrity. One of my former girlfriends who was sexy as hell and absolutely amazing in bed, was also one of the most devious and dishonest women I’ve ever met. Her family was very close and loving, but they often lied to one another to keep from pissing each other off. They simply told all kinds of white lies to each other. A liar fears that they won’t be loved or accepted if they tell the truth. The following is an e-mail from a guy who lives with a girlfriend who is constantly lying to him about other men she is talking to. He doesn’t know what he should do. My comments are (in bold brackets like this) in the body of his e-mail:

Hi Corey,

I had been with my girlfriend for 9 months and had to go away for 30 days for work in Australia. At that point we had not argued once, but a few weeks into the trip we argued for the first time. She had always told me that she wanted me and only me! (When women say things like that, it’s a direct reflection of how they feel about you in that moment only. However, with women, they act how they feel in the moment based upon how well you handle your interactions with them. That is why you should always look at what a woman does, not what she says.) That she loved me more than anything or anyone! That she would be a mess if she lost me. She also promised me that if other guys were to hit on her in my absence that she would tell them no and have nothing more to do with them! Also, that if our relationship was going through a rough patch she wouldn’t run to a past guy for a shoulder to cry on! (When a politician says, “I’m not doing this for political gain…” we all know he’s full of shit and is doing it EXACTLY for political gain. Why? If it was not about political gain, then why bring it up in the first place? How about, “I’d never lie to you. I’m honest. I do everything with honor and integrity. I’m an honest person. I would never steal from you. You can trust me, I’m a christian. I would never fuck you over, etc.” People who promise over and over what they won’t do are trying to cover up for what they are more than likely to do in the future. They are trying to make up for a lack of something, usually truth, honesty or conviction. They’re bullshitting themselves and they can’t help it. “A man who lies to himself, and believes his own lies, becomes unable to recognize truth, either in himself or in anyone else.” ~ Dostoevsky. Truth is self-evident. It simply is. It needs no explanation or justification. Hmmmmmmm… that’s something to think about.) After our first argument (Men who understand women do not argue with them, EVER!!! They communicate with them in a mature, loving and adult manner.) she completely wrote me off and started texting the guy she was with before me while I was away. (Actions speak louder than words. She did exactly what she said she would not. She actually predicted the future and revealed her lack of integrity when she said those things to you she would not do, just like a lying politician. The reality is, when the future of her relationship is in doubt or shaky, she jumps into another dudes bed. I dated a woman like this once. They don’t change. Your girl won’t either.) Meanwhile she was assuring me the relationship was fine and as good as it ever was. She flirted with him, she sent him half naked pictures and he sent her a pic of his cock! She also told him that they could possibly get together when her and I ended and they arranged to meet. As far as I know they never physically met up. (Yea, but you can’t really be sure. She sounds weak and insecure. Weak and insecure people are driven by irrational fears and usually can’t help themselves.) I found this all out when I got back because the sex was lacking. She seemed different and secretive about this guy! I would ask if she’d texted him and she would promise me she hadn’t. (I got a bridge to sell you bro. It’s a great deal.) I later found out that she has been texting him. Not just while I was away, but throughout our entire relationship. (I’m SHOCKED… SHOCKED… she lied. Not really lol. All men and women are predictable when you understand their “Model of the World” and what drives them.) I’ve given her a 2nd chance and she has promised me that she will never do this again. (Yea right. I call bullshit on that. Wait until she is in doubt about your future again, she’ll do the same thing.) Which is hard to believe, but I’m willing to give her the benefit of the doubt for now. (Put the crack pipe down dude.) She promised she would tell me everything, if any other guy showed interest or hit on her or whatever. (She will only tell you things she believes will keep you in line, or that will help her cover her tracks.) Relevant or irrelevant she promised to tell me. I found out recently that another guy she hasn’t even met yet has been constantly hitting her up to meet. Offering to pay for her to go see him. He was surprised to find out her and I lived together. She didn’t tell me anything. When I asked about it she said it doesn’t matter because “I’m not interested in him.” But if that’s the case, why wouldn’t she tell me? Now she just deletes the evidence! What do I do? Please help. (The bottom line is this… she’s a fucking liar, dishonest, devious and deceptive. She has no problem looking you straight in the eye and telling you a total bullshit lie. This girl is only open relationship or sex playmate material. NOT exclusive girlfriend or wife material. Give her what she wants and needs deep down. The freedom to be who she really is. Tell her to date who ever she wants and you date who ever you want. Trying to get her to honor being exclusive with you or any other man is simply not in the cards. If you want someone exclusive for a girlfriend or for a wife, then look elsewhere while you have fun with her. You’ve got lots of options player, get busy. You can download the Amazon Kindle version of my book to your Smartphone, PC, Mac or iPad in under 60 seconds for only $9.99 by CLICKING HERE to learn how to meet and date the type of women you’ve always wanted and have effortless relationships.)

Thanks,

Bob

“A person who deceives is not comfortable being who they really are. Therefore, they lie in order to gain acceptance, love & to avoid conflict because they feel no one would accept and love who they really are.” ~ Corey Wayne