Playful Pickup & Seduction Success Story In Paradise

How to meet and seduce women while on vacation in paradise.

In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email success story from a viewer who has been watching for 3 years and read 3% Man, 5 times. He shares a recent success story from a beach side pickup and seduction he made while living in Thailand. He shares how his friends dog and some vetting and seduction techniques from my book helped him start a beautiful love story in paradise. It’s a great success story showing how easy it is when you don’t really know anyone while on vacation which can lead to many happy endings. My comments are in bold italics like this below in the body of his email.

Hi, I’m Coach Corey Wayne and this is my video coaching newsletter. And the topic of today’s newsletter is going to be, Playful Pickup & Seduction Success Story In Paradise.

So, this particular email success story this guy’s been watching for three years. He says he’s read 3% Man five times so far. Obviously not the 10 to 15 that I recommend. But you can see why even though he hasn’t read the book, the times that I prescribe. When it comes to pickup, and seduction, like in this case, he’s on vacation in Thailand. I guess he lives there, two, three months of the year, annually. I guess he knows somebody out there.

And so, he shares the success story of how he took his friend’s dog for a walk, which, by the way, dogs are great, especially little cute dogs. Girls love dogs. “Oh, he’s so cute.” It’s just such a great opener and icebreaker. Because if you’re with a little dog and the dog likes you, then it’s like having little kids with you.

It’s like being a dad. It’s like you’re safe. And so, women feel more comfortable approaching you if you have a dog, versus you’re just, you know, some weirdo walking down the street. But he does a really great job. Just a couple simple things from The Book to read her interest. And it’s just easily and effortlessly flows right into the bedroom.

So, he sent some pictures. This girl is absolutely beautiful. So, if you’re ever on vacation, this is what’s nice. You don’t even have to know anybody. Like in this case, he had a friend that also lives there, and he took his dog frosty for a walk. And it’s just a great little short success story.

Because this guy went through a difficult time when he came across my work, he wasn’t feeling very good about himself. And it took him a while to get over the breakup. And then he comes across this absolutely beautiful girl, and just has a nice little love story that just boom, happens like that.

Viewer’s Email:

Hey Coach!

Been watching for 3 years now. Read The Book 5 times. My dating life is awesome now. Thanks for all your work & how the water tastes so much better from my “She Belongs to the Streets!” mug.

Well, thank you. For those of you that would like to get the, “She Belongs On The Streets” Mug, you can go to CoreyWayneShop.com to take you there.

Today is the perfect day to finally send in a story.

Chiming in from South East Asia. Currently living on a tiny island that I visit for a few months each year. A friend of mine who lives here permanently lets me borrow her dog named Frosty when I go for walks on the beach at sunset.

Frosty is a great, great idea. That’s a great teammate and a great, um, a great wingman.

On my first sunset walk with Frosty this year, I met this super cute Thai girl who works at one of the scuba diving shops. When I noticed her, she had a big beautiful smile and was staring at Frosty (the dog) accompanying me. 

When I got closer, she smiled at me and said, “Is that your dog?” I playfully explained the dog isn’t mine but then tacked on the simple test of “You’re super cute! What’s your name?”

Pretty easy. Right from The Book. You tell her exactly what you think. Just blurt it out. “God, you take my breath away.” “God, you’re beautiful.” In this case, “You’re super cute.” What she really is; beautiful, great body. I totally would not kick her out of bed for eating crackers. So, I see why he likes her. So, notice what he says next.

You’re super cute. What’s your name?

Right out of The Book. That was actually something that. So, for those of you that are familiar with The Book, this was something that is great. I got this from Doc Love years ago. And so, it’s such a great low risk way to when you meet somebody, you say, “What’s your name? Oh, my name is Vanessa. Well, it’s nice to meet you, Vanessa.”

And you don’t volunteer your name back. Now Why? Is that rude to do that? It feels a little awkward the first few times you do it. When you say, “Hey, what’s your name? Oh, my name is Vanessa. Well, it’s nice to meet you, Vanessa.” Because you naturally want to say, “Hey, it’s nice to meet you, Vanessa. My name is Corey.” But don’t.

You say, “Hey, it’s nice to meet you.” And if she’s interested in any way, she’ll say, “Well, what’s your name?” It’s also possible that she’s being polite. But nine times out of ten, when she asks your name and also means you passed her physical attraction tests. She wants to know who you are.

Because if she’s not interested, she’ll just go, “Oh, it’s nice to meet you too.” And never even bother to ask your name at all. And occasionally you’ll run across a woman who is kind of a little like, “And your name is…?” A little bit of an attitude right out of the gate. But in this case.

She told me her name and then asked for mine. That’s when I knew it was ON!

Like Donkey Kong.

That simple test of stating your sexual interest and asking for their name, and then waiting to see if they ask for your name in return, has been such a game changer for me. It’s opened so many doors… and a few legs these past 3 years.

It really does work great. It’s like, you’re because you’re being direct, you’re being decisive. You’re getting right to the point. You see this girl and you’re like, “Wow, nice to meet you.” “Wow. You take my breath away.” “God, you’re intoxicating to look at.” It’s like, whatever comes out of your mouth just comes out of your mouth.

“Oh, you have a fucking unbelievable body.” Whatever happens to be. Because what you have to understand is you communicate your interest. Because obviously the eyes are communicating that there’s interest there, especially with a nice smile. And she feels comfortable talking to you, because you got this cute little dog with you.

And then you start talking. And then the next thing is you ask her name. She asks for yours. It just makes it so beautiful and easy. And if she never bothered asking for your name, you’d say, “Hey, well, it’s nice to meet you. Have a great day.” It’s just, “You too.” And you didn’t risk anything. She didn’t even know that you were vetting to see if there was real interest on her part. It’s so simple, but it’s so brilliant.

I probably don’t need to explain it, but the idea is that if they ask for your name back, then on some level they must be interested in you. And if they don’t ask for your name, then you just simply say “great to meet you, have a nice day.” I think you mentioned this many times. Maybe omit this part if it’s irrelevant.

Well, it is in The Book. It’s not that I just mentioned it occasionally. It’s in The Book. It’s a really great technique.

After a few minutes of seeing if I could get her to do 90% of the talking during this first chance meeting.

That’s the other thing that’s nice. You want a woman that’s outgoing, very talkative, feels comfortable. And most women typically tend to be that way. And you’re looking for easygoing, easy to get along with. This is the girl excited to talk to you. Is she asking you personal questions? That’s what you’re looking for.

And that I still found her interesting during that time, I said, “I got to run but let’s grab a drink soon” handing her my phone with Instagram already open for her to enter her contact details. I got her Instagram and moved on with my day.

So, about a week goes by… she’d been liking some of my stories & posts on Instagram… and I shot her a text saying, “Hey cutie! When are you free to grab a drink?”

So, he waited a whole week. Right? She didn’t get pissed off. She was like, “Oh!” You’ll see women all the time. I see them in the comments. I see them in the posts. “Oh, if you waited three days to call me, I would never do that. Argh. Argh. Argh. Argh.” The girl liked him. Easy going, easy to get along with.

You want her to just be glad to hear from you. Whether it took three days or a week. It shouldn’t matter. If she’s got a good attitude and she likes you. She’ll just be glad to hear from you. And she may even go, “Oh, I thought you lost my number.” But in this case, they connected on Instagram.

And she responded, “After tomorrow.” So, I set the date and said, “Great, let’s get together 7 P.M. tomorrow at Sharkey’s.”

Well, I guess there’s a place in Thailand or one of these islands called Sharkey’s.

Nice rooftop bar here on the island to grab a sunset drink. She replied, “Lovely, see you there.”

So lovely. I don’t believe she’s English. She’s hot Taiwanese.

What can I say? The date was great. We spent an hour listening to live music, having cocktails and she did 90% of the talking at Sharkey’s. It was easy to make her laugh and get her to open up. 

See. Easy going, easy to get along with. This is what you’re looking for. You want a woman that makes your dick hard, not makes your life hard. You want a woman to build you up. Be your biggest cheerleader and fan. Not a difficult pain in the ass. That’s always looking for a chance to needle you, or emasculate you, or tweak your balls. Easygoing, easy to get along with.

After that we went to another beach bar to shoot some pool and watch a fire show. And when we were watching the fire show, she casually asked where I was staying.

Oh, I wonder why.

I knew that was my cue to say “Hey, let’s get out of here and we can have a glass of wine back at my place.” And off we went. Smooth sailing.

See if you know what to look for, if you understand that she’s like, “Hey, do you live close by?” That’s kind of saying, “Hey, if you’re up for it, I’m okay with going and being alone.” Because after all, she got to meet frosty. And that’s all it took was little frosty.

I have a private pool villa here, so we played around in the pool… She actually doesn’t know how to swim so I gave her a fun impromptu swimming lesson. That was a great opportunity for light touches and silly innuendos. I used to be a lifeguard, so it was fun to pretend to teach a swimming lesson again. 

We talked more & had a few more drinks before heading to the bedroom for a few rounds of the Indoor Olympics. That was a great experience, and I could not have pulled it off without your guidance!  Stoked to see where this new connection may go. 

A few pictures for authenticity attached 😉 but please keep those to yourself.

I have and she’s hot. If I was running into that girl and I was on vacation. I totally would be hooking up with her. If obviously she was interested. So good job dude.

So, this is interesting. This is like, a little side note to something that helped him.Because, I talked about earlier, that he went through a really difficult time.

Thanks again Coach!

PS – I found your work when I was at rock bottom 3 years ago. Long story short, I was struggling with feeling bonded to a woman who dumped me.

So, imagine going from getting dumped to this absolutely gorgeous young girl. Just saying, “Hey, do you live close by?”

I struggled with this bonded feeling for about 10 months (and I’d felt this way about other women in my past.) I could barely eat or sleep. My mind kept going to the ex – thinking about her. 

Well, rejection breeds obsession. And probably like most guys, you didn’t see it coming. And then all of a sudden it stings. You’re dumped, and then two weeks later she’s banging some other guy. And you’re going, “How did she move on so quickly?” Because by the time she left, her feelings were gone. And so was her respect.

I did all the “feel it to heal it stuff” to try and let go of the intense feelings towards her. Anything to try and move on… therapy… I dated other women etc. Nothing changed until I took my first ice cold shower. 

So, you know, obviously cold plunges are a big thing and like Tony Robbins has been big into cold plunges for years and has talked about it. And that’s something he does every morning is jumps in, uh, what is it, 50 degrees or 40 degrees or 60 degrees, whatever it is. And then. I don’t like cold water. But hey, if it works for you, man, keep doing it.

I’ll never forget that day 2 years ago now. I did a 3-minute cold shower on full cold in October 2021. Later on in the day, I recall riding downtown to grab a smoothie and just thinking, “Holy crap I feel great” and that’s when I realized I was no longer ruminating about the Ex.

I had discovered inner peace for the first time in over 10 months. There’s probably a lot of viewers who could use this to help get over their Ex’s.

So, this is really interesting.

Cold water therapy can increase dopamine by as much as 250% & norepinephrine by as much as 530% – all from just seconds spent in cold water. 

Yeah. Because it freaks your body out. And you’re like, “Ah, we’re gonna die. I got to do something.”

Going through a breakup causes dopamine levels to drop.

Yeah.

So cold water therapy is a brilliant hack to get back to a masculine center I’ve found. Hope that helps!

Thanks again Coach Corey!!

You’re a Rockstar!!!

Bob

Well, thanks for the success story and sharing what you did. I mean, it was so simple. You know, it’s like I talk about in the book that great Adam Carolla quote, “When a girl likes you, the doors open and all you got to do is walk through. But if the doors start closing in your face, then you walk away.” And in this case, she made it very easy. She came up to him. The dog was his peacock.

To borrow something from the pickup and seduction community, and it’s like she already liked him. And that’s the reality. Attraction is not a choice. Girls already like you, they’re already predisposed to like you and be interested in you. But unfortunately, most guys don’t know what to do. They don’t have any game, they don’t know how to tell if a girl likes them or not. They don’t know how to go about setting a date.

And just the way he was direct, decisive, got to the point, made a date. And then when she asked him if he lives close by, he knows what that means. He says, “Hey, let’s go back and have a glass of wine.” And then of course, they, “Boom chicka bam bam.” And now she’s helped him with his grief therapy. Lots of happy finishes in Paradise.

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