How learning the secrets of people watching can open your eyes to what is consciously and unconsciously happening when men and women interact with one another, and how this can give you an unbeatable edge in business, negotiation, life and love.
In this video coaching newsletter, I discuss an email from a viewer who shares how reading my book and watching my videos has completely opened his eyes to what most people miss and can’t see when men and women interact with one another. He shares some of his recent experiences of people watching when clueless men hit on women when he is out and about, but instead of these women being engaged in conversation with the men who are hitting on them, they pick up on his superior vibe and notice him instead.
The funny thing is, these bad pickup artists have no idea the women are not paying attention to them, but are instead looking at him. It’s another great example of how my work can skyrocket your success and confidence in a short period of time, even if you are a novice, by seeing what others can’t, and by using what I teach to give you an edge in your personal and professional life. My comments are in (bold parenthesis like this below) in the body of his email.
What’s up man? I’ve been following your work now for about 4 months, just listening to some of your videos, at least 2 or 3 a day, old and new. I have only read a few chapters in your book, ha-ha. Hopefully you don’t click out of the email after seeing that! (At least you started on the book. The point is, you kept coming back and watching videos, because you realized you’re learning things from me that you’re not learning anywhere else.) Your YouTube videos basically drove me to buy your book, and now every day I make a commitment to learning your work. (That’s what it takes, and that’s the difference between your success versus the people who aren’t taking the time to read these things.)
The reason I’m writing you this email is not necessarily anything going on with me, but what I see at bars, night events, concerts, most relationships, etc. Your work opened me up to seeing the truth in how women think and why most men will never understand them. I felt like an asshole listening to some YouTube guy, then your work started to appear all over my life. (You were picking up little things here and there, and you could see it was just like what I talk about in my videos. When you see that, it builds your confidence to apply the things you’re learning.) I’ve always had a girl or two and was in one long-term relationship. That relationship threw me off for a year or so until your work came into my life. (When you have a failure, you start doubting yourself. Your strategy sucked, but now you can apply the proper strategy.) What I mean by that is, I now see that by being weak and always giving in or chasing women, it will never give you true happiness, but all these guys do is chase the women, ha-ha. I swear, I walk into a bar now and see dudes drooling on girls, giving them all the attention in the world, and that same girl is looking at me. (When you have the body language I talk about in my article and video, “Body Language That Attracts Women,” it will give you a leg up on most people you encounter.) I don’t understand where we, as men, went wrong. Where did we start to fall off? (The Feminist Movement was a big part of it. Without good, alpha male role models for men to follow in life, it screws up the sexual polarity between men and women.) Social media has blown some of these girls’ heads up way too much man, and all these guys chasing them nonstop has made the game harder for the real guys like us that see it. (I don’t agree with that statement at all. Now you have a different way to look at the world, and you can give off alpha male body language and have an advantage.) All we can do is sit back, be ourselves and continue to chase our dreams and reach our goals, right? (That’s all you need to focus on, and that’s why these women will notice you.)
This was more of a venting email, Lol, but I wanted to say thank you Corey for exposing people’s minds to the truth in success, success with women and your life. I’m one of the people who never wanted to say I needed to change or needed to read a book about relationships, but you changed that in me, and I couldn’t be happier as a result. (Your approach was not working, so you were seeking knowledge. Now you’ve found it and are starting to apply it, and your confidence is starting to grow. The idea is to get a little better each day.) I’m going to continue to read the book. I have a ton of shit going on, but no excuses. I’ll get it done. (That’s the right attitude.) The only question I have for you is, how do I take all that I’ve been learning and am going to continue to learn and make myself feel more confident? (The more you observe these things, the more that’s going to build your confidence, but what you really need to start doing is applying things. Watch my video, “Improving Your Social Skills,” a few times, and start applying the simple conversation tips about eye contact and asking people’s names. When you know you won’t be rejected, think about what that will do for your confidence.) I’m good looking, I always dress nice, and as bad as this is, I always have some girl with me or wanting me. I’m saying “bad” because I kind of want a relationship, you know, but my confidence to be in a relationship again is kind of shot. (Confidence is applying what you know how to do and doing it really well. It’s taking the knowledge that you’re learning and applying it. You’ve got to get through the book and start applying these things. It’s just time and repetition dude.)
Thanks for reading this if you did. Stay real man. You are speaking the truth.
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“What is the difference that makes the difference between someone who reaches and lives their full potential, and someone who settles for a life that is less than what they are capable of living? Knowledge. In other words, successful people have knowledge that most others don’t. Your success in life is directly proportional to what you learn and the value you add by applying it. To become a person of value and reach your full potential, you must be willing to seek out, learn and apply uncommon and specialized knowledge you have a passion for. The more value you can add by applying what you know, the higher your income earning potential will be.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne
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