Sex Must Be The Man’s Fault

May 24, 2012 by Coach Corey Wayne

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How understanding that sex must be the man’s fault is one of the keys to seducing women in bed. When it comes to seducing women and sleeping with them, you must be cognizant and aware of a woman’s internal slut alarm. Most women worry about being labeled a slut by their peers if they are perceived to be too easy to sleep with. Therefore, women must be able to justify sleeping with you as something that “just happened” because you both got caught up in the moment. It’s essential as kissing leads to heavy petting and affection, and then on to undressing each other and ultimately to penetrating her physically that you are okay with backing off and slowing things down a bit if she starts resisting you because you are moving things too fast. As long as you back off for a few minutes and let things calm down, when you start kissing and petting her again, she should offer you less and less resistance until all of the resistance stops and she lets you penetrate her if you are properly managing her level of safety and comfort. The following is an e-mail from a reader who says he has gotten two women he knows to the point of almost seducing them, but he couldn’t quite close the deal. My comments are (in bold brackets like this) in the body of his e-mail:

Hey Corey,

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How is everything going? I haven’t written to you in a little while because I have been practicing. Now I forgot to tell you in my prior e-mails that I am recently single from a serious relationship. I am also a single father. So my skills were a little out of tune. I never had an issue with getting women in the past. I was only hung up on that last girl I told you about because she was a challenge. She actually said no to me, and many women haven’t. But none the less I have another issue. I can seduce women to the point where I know they want to sleep with me, but I can never seal the deal. (If what you are saying is true, then it means you are talking them out of it. Either by being impatient or not knowing when to back off and when to make your move.) This has happened twice already. Both with female friends. (Dude, if you were really practicing what I teach, you would stop trying to convert every girl friend you have into a girlfriend. That tells me you are trying to play it safe and take minimal risk by going after women you know. You’re still chasing women you really don’t have much of chance with. Women who like you make it obvious.) I got the vibe they wanted to have sex, but needed the extra push. Now my question to you is, how do I get them in the sack without being too forward and blunt? (You should be taking them out on dates or having them come over for dates at your place that involves drinks and making dinner together. If you were making out with these women at your place, then it should be easy to seduce them. I think you are bullshitting yourself and overestimating your chances with these women. You can download the Amazon Kindle version of my book to your Smartphone, PC, Mac or iPad in under 60 seconds for only $9.99 by CLICKING HERE to learn how to meet and date the type of women you’ve always wanted and have effortless relationships.)

Bob

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