Sex, Sexual Anticipation & Satisfaction

How to properly use time, infinite patience and mystery to create sexual tension and sexual anticipation, so it will lead to sexual satisfaction with members of the opposite sex.

In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a woman who has been talking to and interacting with a man who is doing a fantastic job of building sexual tension and sexual anticipation. They are both in college and things started off fun and flirty. He sometimes says very naughty and dirty things to her, but because he has the right balance of humor, charm, flirtiness and confidence, she lets him get away with it.

Recently things escalated sexually between them in a room full of other people with his hand down her pants. No one knew or saw what he was doing and it was very erotic for her. He got her off and she really wants to sleep with him now. She says he is an alpha male and he has a lot of women who want him. He told her she was really fucking sexy. She asks what she should do to communicate that she wants to have sex with him without coming off as needy or scaring him away.

“We tend to value more what we have to work for and often take for granted things that come too easy. Learning to cultivate and practice infinite patience and a non-attached attitude to the things, circumstances and people that we want and desire in life, is essential to helping us to remain centered and at choice. In order to consistently get what we want in life, we must remain in control of our emotions and desires, instead of letting them control and hijack us. When our emotions and desires control us, this puts us into a fearful state that causes our actions to take us away from what we want, instead of towards what we want.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne