She Blew Me Off Pretty Badly

Jul 22, 2014 by Coach Corey Wayne

122305731How to make dates women keep so they don’t flake or blow you off at the last minute when you were really looking forward to seeing them.

In this video coaching newsletter I discuss four different emails from four different viewers. The first email is from a viewer who was dating a woman he made some definite “maybe” plans with, when she was coming into town with her brother. She tells him she is on her way into town. He never hears from her. The next day he tries calling her and only gets her voicemail. She contacts him a week later apologizing for blowing him off. He wonders what he should do now. The second email is from a viewer who is getting divorced. His ex-wife to be calls him one night while he is hanging out with his new girlfriend, and basically threatens to take him to the cleaners in the divorce. He immediately leaves his girlfriends place to try and deal with the situation. His new girlfriend gets pissed and despite his apologies, she tells him to fuck off. It’s now been over a month since he has heard from her.

The third email is from a viewer who got blown off by the woman of his dreams two years ago for being needy, over-pursuing and generally acting like a woman. She contacted him six months ago and things are going better now that he mostly has been following what I teach. She is now talking about marriage. He wonders if he should now start calling and pursuing more and if he should ask to see her more now that things are going way better than they ever have. The fourth email is from a viewer who was dating a woman who he was seeing three times a week. She started backing off and told him she was not ready for a relationship. He walked away. She called him a few weeks later and set a date. On the date he kissed her cheek and missed several opportunities to escalate things physically. She recently ignored his latest phone call and attempt to set a date. He wonders what he should do now.

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“Causing other people to respect you is one of the hardest things to earn, and one of the easiest things to lose. You should never make “maybe” plans where you keep your schedule wide open until the last minute, hoping someone wants to spend time with you. People who value and appreciate you will be happy to make definite plans where you have a definite day, place and time to meet up, without any instructions to verify the plans once again at the last minute. When someone asks you to verify plans at the last minute, the self-respecting thing to do is to withdraw the offer and make plans with someone else who is eager to make definite plans to see you. When you agree to be a “maybe” option for someone, you open yourself up to being someone’s backup plan. Never agree to be a backup, only a priority.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne

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  1. Hey Corey,
    I am a 55 year old that some are saying is in a midlife crises. My only crises is that I am tired of living a kiss ass life. At 49 I went to college to get into the medical field, and found that after working in it, it is not for me. So I am taking more classes and looking to make a change into something that will fit me more. I am taking the same approach to dating. I was married for 25 years in a miserable relationship, been divorced for four, and just starting dating. Needless to say I was making mistakes and destroying my chances with women. I started looking for to find what I was doing wrong and found you. I have been a bitch in every aspect of my life and haven’t realized it. I am doing things that are counter to who I am. I have been into martial arts for 30 years, a shipbuilder, ironworker, and a boilermaker, among some of the other things I have done. I realized since watching your videos and reading your e-book that instead of being more of who I am and what I need to be, I have been being more and more of a bitch. I appreciate your work, and have recommended you to some friends. I have decided I will not try to date until after I have read your book for the tenth time. I am working on changing my life for the better and find good coaches invaluable. This is a whole new approach for me and I am excited to make the change. I am a strong believer in that if it isn’t working, grow a set and change it.

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