What you should do when you start dating your high school fantasy crush several years after graduating, who is also… you guessed it… the cheerleading captain herself, several years after you’ve shaken off your nerdiness and have had lots of success with women. However, she throws you a curveball at times calling you out on holding back your feelings and desire for her, saying she likes guys who do most of the chasing and basically sounds like she expects you to fall madly in love with her before she’ll want to become more serious. How you should respond knowing that women are more attracted to men whose feelings are unclear so you don’t become her doormat or manservant.
In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a former high school nerd who’s now dating the former captain of the cheerleaders. They ran into each other 8 years after graduation. She’s telling him she wants him to chase her, but he doesn’t think he should.
If you have a question you would like me to consider answering in a future Video Coaching Newsletter, you can send it (3-4 paragraphs/500 words max) to this email address: Questions@UnderstandingRelationships.com
If you feel I have added value to your life, you can show your appreciation by doing one of the following three things:
From my heart to yours,
Author, Speaker, Peak Performance Coach, Entrepreneur
The love that you withhold is the pain that you carry. “Fear and hurt imprison the heart. When you are feeling pain, you are focused on yourself.” ~ The Ten Disciplines of Love