Why your girlfriend will tell you that she needs some space to figure things out in your relationship, but that she still wants to be exclusive. However, a few days later you find out she went out, got drunk and slept with another guy who she had previously been adamant that he was only just a “friend.”
In this video newsletter I discuss an email from a viewer who graduated from college recently and his girlfriend still has a year to go. She recently broke up with him saying she wanted some space, but she also said that they should stay exclusive while they figured things out. So he starts talking to her day and night on the phone thinking he’s making progress. He goes out and buys an expensive necklace to surprise her with at dinner when he comes to visit her the following week. The same night he makes plans with her for his next visit, she gets drunk and sleeps with a guy who she said was only a “friend.” Oops! It just kinda happened. Now he wants to know what he should do to turn things around. He’s deluding himself thinking he’s not mad and they can get past this bump in the road.
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