The harsh reality of dating women who lean left when you are a Trump supporter.
In this video coaching newsletter, I discuss an email from a viewer who recently got rejected for a second date after successfully hooking up with her on their first date, even though she knew he was a Trump supporter. He lives in Chicago, and on their first date they got onto the topic of politics. She was upset when she found out he supported the President. He did a great job of explaining his point of view in a calm and rational manner.
She was upset, but he remained centered and eventually she seemed to calm down verbally, even though her facial expressions showed she was still upset and angry. Despite this, she still went home with him and they hooked up. It’s a great email on how to handle pressure while on a date and still have a successful seduction. It also shows that what women say they want and what they are emotionally attracted to often isn’t a match. My comments are in bold italics like this below in the body of his email.
It’s funny reading through this, because what I’ve noticed in the past several years since Trump got elected is, you see this on the dating apps. You see women that are like, “If you voted for that guy, swipe left,” “If you voted for the orange man, swipe left,” “If you’re MAGA, swipe left.” Women go out of their way to let men know that they do not like the President, and it’s comical to see these things.
It should be an entertaining email, but it’s good because things are going to come up when you’re on dates that are going to put you under pressure. It may be an unexpected topic, and you can tell things are starting to go sideways a little bit. This guy does a really good job of handling it and talking in a calm manner and remaining centered. And it has a good effect on her, because she obviously likes him and is attracted to him. So it’s a success either way.
I have had many success stories thanks to your work, but this one in particular I thought I would share with you because it is the best demonstration I’ve personally had on the importance of keeping centered.
I live in downtown Chicago and I am a huge supporter of President Trump. Because of this, dating can be challenging.
You know, I kind of came to this epiphany over the last few weeks, because even though I live in Florida and we have a Republican governor, the places where I live in Central Florida and in South Florida we’ve got commie mayors, and they’re just lunatics about the mask mandate. Now, I’m not talking about the N-95 mask, I’m talking about the surgical masks, where there’s lots of studies that they don’t do anything. But that’s beside the point. I’m sure there will be lots of people hating and complaining trying to tell me otherwise. If somebody’s complaining about you wearing a mask, but they’re not wearing an N-95 themselves, it’s like, they don’t know what they’re talking about.
And so my epiphany that I had is that everybody that’s wearing a mask is probably leaning left. And everybody that’s walking down the street that doesn’t have a mask on there’s a good chance they lean right. If you’re trying to determine who to approach, you can’t really see what a woman looks like, because I’ve had that experience where you’re like, “Wow, she’s got beautiful eyes,” and then she pulls down her mask and you’re like, “Ewww.” I’m sure you guys have probably had the same thing, but it’s nice. It kind of culls the herd for you a little bit. It lets you know who you potentially have a chance of hitting it off with, and who to avoid.
While I have no issue dating women who have liberal views, (I actually enjoy hearing other viewpoints), a fair, few women out there are completely intolerant and unaccepting of views that aren’t “orange man bad.”
Absolutely. I’ve got friends and family members who are suffering from TDS, “Trump Derangement Syndrome.” My own assistant, who I love to death, we’ve been friends for 26, 27 years, she’s definitely got TDS. I’m probably irritating her as she’s watching this right now, but I don’t care.
It’s just amazing, my parents have some friends of theirs who are really good friends, and they had to stop hanging out with them because they lean left. Every time they got together, the guy would just start going off and complaining about Trump, and this and that, and just being obnoxious and loud and causing a scene. Even my own cousins, who are pro-Second Amendment, they voted for Biden, and they have no idea that Biden is going to put in Beto O’Rourke, who says he wants to ban semi-automatic rifles and pistols.
But it will be interesting to see what happens, because the media is gaslighting everybody, telling everybody that the election is over, and all Trump has to do is, three states get the legislatures to not certify their votes, and Fareed Zakaria of CNN, of all places, back in September made a video that’s making its rounds again talking about how Trump could win in a disputed election because of all of the fraud that’s coming up with these mail-in ballots.
If you’ve got three states that don’t certify, then what happens is it goes to the U.S. House. What happens is, each state gets one vote, so that’s fifty votes. And right now, there’s twenty-six legislatures that are Republican, and so this is actually a Constitutional process and our Founding Fathers actually accounted for this — if there was a problem or there was massive fraud in an election. They looked and said, we can go to the people’s representatives. In other words, if the people voted a certain way, then their legislatures, depending on which way they lean, will send one vote, basically.
So right now, as it stands, there’s twenty-six legislatures that are Republican, I think twenty-four are Democrat, and I think there’s one that’s kind of in the middle or tied. So, if that happens, and these states don’t certify because of all of the fraud that’s coming out — and there’s lots of evidence of it, despite what the news is saying — it’s going to be really interesting to see what happens. I think it’s January 6th when they go to certify the election for the Electoral College. And if Trump ends up getting another term, I mean half of the country is going to freak out.
I don’t know what’s going to happen, but it’s really interesting. I think for the first time in our history — I don’t think this has ever happened before — we might have a situation where we fall back on what the Constitution lays out. So you should definitely watch the video. Fareed Zakaria did it, and he’s a CNN guy. This is a law, this is a Constitutional process. I know that may be shocking to the people that lean left. It may happen and it may not, I don’t know. We’ll see what happens. It’s all up in the air. So anyway, back to our email.
One particular girl I met a few weeks ago, I took her out to a local bar on a first date. We had a good time, I made her laugh, the conversation was lighthearted and fun and we vibed really well.
So far, so good. It’s amazing, four years ago, I wasn’t an Obama supporter, but I had a girlfriend who was a Socialist. It didn’t create any problems. We almost never talked about politics. But nowadays, it’s like the Scarlet Letter.
At the end of the night, I went in and kissed her and then we went our separate ways. It was more or less a textbook first date. We then texted the next day and made plans to meet the following Thursday for drinks.
That Thursday evening, we met up at the bar. I could tell her attraction for me was high as soon as we sat down. She actually told me a few minutes in that she loved how I kissed her at the end of our first date, and that a lot of guys would ask her permission to kiss her. I said, “guys actually do that?” with a puzzled look on my face, (although truthfully, I was thinking that I used to be that guy back in the day).
So, she obviously likes his confidence, she’s into him. So far, everything is looking good. Everything is looking textbook.
From then on however, the date took a turn for the worse. I can’t remember exactly what the pretext was, but it ended with her asking, “Wait, you’re not a Trump supporter are you?” I thought to myself, “Here we go.” I could’ve easily pretended to be apolitical or try and soften the blow like I had done in the past, but I felt I was not being true to myself.
This is the important part right here. This is his truth, this is what he believes. He’s going to speak it without fear and let the chips fall where they may, even if she goes full TDS and storms out. Whatever, it’s her problem. She was radicalized by the media who’s been gaslighting her for four years, saying that we had a fascist takeover of the country. If we had a real fascist, you would know it.
So, I looked her dead in the eye and with a semi-smirk I replied, “Yes, I am a supporter of the President.” I held eye contact and didn’t say anything else.
Ye who speaks first loses.
It was silent for a few moments, (I genuinely think she was speechless). She then followed up with a series of “Reallys?” and “Are you serious?” and “How could you like someone who is racist, xenophobic, hates women, yada, yada, yada.”
All of the stuff that CNN, and MSNBC, and The New York Times, all of them have repeated for the last four years, every day. That’s the power of propaganda. You repeat a lie often enough, low-information voters, they just believe the lie.
Through this interrogation, I kept very calm and explained why I believed in the things I did.
So, he’s calm, he’s remaining centered, he’s not bothered, he’s not perturbed, he’s not intimidated by her. He’s just very matter-of-factually explaining the price of tea in China.
I explained it in a way that was very respectful and non-combative. I told her straight up that if someone wasn’t able to accept me for what I believed in, then I wouldn’t want to be with a person like that anyway.
So basically, this is what I believe in. And if you don’t like it or somebody else, they can pound sand. It’s very powerful. Living that way and speaking your truth in that way, you’ll piss people off, definitely, but there will also be other people that will be cool, “I appreciate your honesty.”
And I truly meant it. From then on, she calmed down a bit, but was still clearly flustered by the exchange. We moved on to other topics, but I could see by her expressions that it was still bothering her a lot.
I’ll bet. What’s the old saying? “If you want to piss off a conservative, lie to them. If you want to piss off a liberal, tell them the truth.”
I mean, just go look at the reviews of my book, “Mastering Yourself.” The things that are in here are truthful and documented. It sets people off, and they lie and they misrepresent what’s in my book, because they’re so upset about it. That’s the power of propaganda. And if you haven’t read “Mastering Yourself” you can read it for free at UnderstandingRelationships.com, along with “How To Be A 3% Man.”
I could literally see an internal conflict raging inside her; her voice and words were kind and understanding, but her facial expressions were the complete opposite.
Oh, I wish I could have been a fly on the wall, just seeing that.
Throughout the night she kept bringing up the topic but was slowly calming down. I think she was frustrated, because she had a high level of attraction for me but couldn’t get over the fact that I was a Trump supporter.
So she’s seeing your reality of what a good dude you are, but yet the propaganda is going around in her head, because she’s been gaslit along with the rest of the country over the last four years, it’s like, it doesn’t compute.
Later in the night, I asked if she wanted to come home with me to watch a movie on Netflix. She agreed, which I was a little surprised by, considering how the night went.
That’s why you always go for the close. You never know. She may say no, but this is your second date with her, so it doesn’t matter.
From then on, she was a lot more chill and we ended up sleeping together.
Ha, imagine that. “How To Be A 3% Man,” in action. However, our story doesn’t end there.
I did text her a few days later seeing if she wanted to hang out again. She replied, “Sorry, I just can’t get over the Trump thing.” I replied, “Well, that’s a shame, but I respect your decision. Good luck with everything,” and have not spoken a word to her since. Despite this, I still consider it a success story.
Bro, good job. Drama Free Zone, baby. So, he got to live and speak his truth, he still got laid. Even though he’s not going to date her anymore, they each got a happy finish out of it. It’ a success story, and it reinforces that it actually works — being who you really are, damn the consequences.
Although I’m not trying to count notches on my bedpost, being able to seduce someone who despises what you believe in is really satisfying and goes to show that people have no control over how they feel and who they are attracted to.
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