In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a viewer who used what he learned from my book and videos to get his ex girlfriend back. He does a masterful job of using humor, confidence, playful banter and charm to talk his ex girlfriend into dumping her rebound guy, and want to get back together with him again. He says she originally dumped him because he was a “needy little bitch.” He got focused on his purpose and mission and what was most important as a man.
They have been back together for several months now, are going to move in together soon, never argue and things are better than they have ever been between them. He does a good job of detailing what he said and did on their first date together after she had dumped him a few months earlier, and how be broke down her barriers and resistance. She had intended that date to be the last time they spoke and saw each other to get permanent closure. He had other plans and was prepared for anything. He got what he wanted.
“Love is supposed to be playful and fun, not serious and full of drama. Humor, charm, love of life, playful banter and making your lover or potential lover smile and laugh, is the most effective tool you can use to diffuse a tense situation, dissolve anger and hurt, and cause someone to become loving, sweet, affectionate, horny and desire you again when they have become cold and distant. Skillfully using humor and being playful is an essential characteristic of any great seducer, lover and man who is universally loved by women and other people. Remaining calm, loving, playful and sweet despite the best attempts of others to agitate, irritate and diminish you, enables you to talk anyone into anything, make allies of enemies and soften even the hardest heart. It’s impossible for someone to remain pissed and angry at you when they’re laughing.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne