She’s In Love After 3 Weeks?

Mar 12, 2012 by Coach Corey Wayne

How to get a woman to fall in love with you after only a few weeks of dating so she asks you to be her boyfriend! In my book, I talk about how long it takes for a woman on average to fall in love with you provided you do more things right than wrong with her. Most women you meet who find you at least minimally attractive, average, or kind of okay are going to have an interest level in you which is in the 50s or low 60s percentile range. By doing most things right, you can get her to fall in love with you in about two months, or about a dozen dates. In my book I give a very specific example about my girlfriend Katie, and I describe in very explicit detail how easy and effortless it was for us to fall in love. There was a deep physical and emotional connection between us the first time we made eye contact. I knew without a doubt that she was exactly the woman I had intended to meet. The first time she came to visit me in the states, we compared our lists of the exact person we wanted to attract into our lives. We both got goosebumps as we read each other’s list of what we wanted in our next lover, and realized we had exactly described one another on paper many months before we ever met for the first time, or even knew each other existed. Our relationship was effortless from the moment we met. People who met us the next day after our very first date (we were at a week-long seminar with about 5000 other people) assumed we had been together for a long time. Our connection and adoration for each other was obvious for all to see. To most people, that kind of thing only happens slowly over time. For us and because neither one of us held back, it was as if we had already known each other our whole lives. I was fearless and so was she. We’re still good friends to this day even though we are no longer together as a couple.

The following is an e-mail from a reader. A girl he was dating asked him to be her boyfriend after only three weeks of dating. He accepted. This guy has knocked it out of the park, and it appears he is flawlessly living exactly what I teach. However, he’s kind of in disbelief that she’s in love after only three weeks of dating, but wants to make sure he’s doing everything right. Every guy is different. Some guys can read my book, and go right out and duplicate exactly what I experienced with Katie, their first time out. For most guys, like me, they have to work up to it because they have a lot of work to do on themselves first. You must become what you want to attract. From his e-mail and my comments which are (in bold brackets like this) in the body of his e-mail, you get another great example of flawless execution of what I teach that leads to having effortless relationships. Plus, he’s a broke student who has gone back to college to better himself, but she’s fallen in love with him anyways! Here is his e-mail:

Hello Corey!

First of all, I’d like to say that I am a big fan of your work! (Thanks man! PayPal Donations are always appreciated!) My question pertains to a current girlfriend I have, but I do want to give you a little background information first. I’m a full-time Physical Therapy student who had to leave his retail job to live a more productive life. (Good for you! Women want you at your best. They like guys who go after what they want in life without fear of rejection, disappointment or failure. Going for your dreams is sexy to women. If you are successful at going after what you want in life, women assume there’s a good chance you will be successful at having a great relationship with them.) I met my girlfriend last year a few days before New Years eve, and I set a definite date for NYE for us to go out. (Good job on the definite date!) I had some money left over from Christmas luckily! So I was able to take her to dinner and dancing. After the first date, I ran out of money, tuition and books, and I told her the truth; that I was unemployed and a full time student. (You told it like it was without fear of losing her because you are broke.) So money—and courting—would be at a minimum. She was fine with that, and so I did what I could, such as watching in-home movies. (Good job! Another example of why most women don’t care about money as long as you don’t care about it. You had a detached “it is what it is” mentality about your financial situation. A good woman would not care. She want’s you and not your money.) Within three weeks, she wanted me to be hers. (She CHOSE you as her boyfriend because you let her come to you at her own pace. Nice job! Textbook bro!) I agreed, as I enjoyed her company. (It’s impossible to get rejected by a woman who is chasing you and who asks you to be her boyfriend as long as you continue to do everything right.) She’s taken me out to dinner a few times, (Brownie points for her! She is a giver. She contributes what she can offer because she knows it takes two! It’s a team effort. She is working to court you also. That’s what you want! The purpose of all relationships is you go there to give!) we’ve gone hiking, to church, salsa dancing, and even to night clubs. She has even begun to take an interest in fitness and martial arts, my passions, and loves what I teach her. (She’s becoming one with you and can’t help but be excited about what you are excited about. She’s becoming your biggest cheerleader. Martial arts prepared you well to maintain emotional self-control. In dating, like martial arts, if you don’t have emotional self-control… you get your ass kicked! Emotional pain and rejection can often feel like they hurt more than physical pain.) My question has to do with the time frame: is three weeks really enough for a woman to fall in love? (Sure, especially when her interest level starts out in the 80’s. Plus, if your execution of the strategies I teach is flawless, you become an irresistible magnet to her. When neither one of you holds back from the get-go, and you know what to do because you have prepared yourself properly… IT’S EFFORTLESS like it’s supposed to be.) I’d like to think so, but I remember reading that it takes several months for this to happen, and yes, she said the “L word” in three weeks. (However, the thing to keep in mind is you have very little time in together. So keep doing what you have been doing that has gotten you here, but don’t start acting dopey! It’s better to underrate her interest level and pay attention to what she does and not what she says.) She seems honest, and she’s got a wonderful personality! (Boy, that’s really something to suffer thru isn’t it LOL?) Is it really possible to get a woman to fall in love in less than a month? I look forward to your answer! (Yes, however, loyalty comes with time by being consistent with her. Time will strengthen your bond with her. You simply zipped to the front of her dating line because she probably had super high interest from the moment you met. Plus, you seem to be a fantastic student of what I teach. Therefore, the deck was stacked in your favor from the beginning, and she could not help but choose you. She perceived you as a catch and did not want to risk losing you to another woman. You are experiencing exactly what my relationships are like now when they magically happen perfectly from the moment we first meet. I described my experiences with my girlfriend Katie, and how effortless it was from the moment we met in my book. You have successfully duplicated that so far. Congratulations to you for your home run with your new girlfriend! You can download the Amazon Kindle version of my book to your Smartphone, PC, Mac or iPad in under 60 seconds for only $9.99 by CLICKING HERE to learn how to meet and date the type of women you’ve always wanted and have effortless relationships.)

Sincerely,

Irvin

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Published on March 12, 2012

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  1. Hi Corey,

    Your videos are amazing! I lessen to them religiously!

    There is this girl I know since a long time, and lately I’ve become interested in her. I asked her friend if she was single, she said yes. After a few days I saw this girl at a Oktoberfest, she started talking to me right away and we talk for several minutes I could feel butterfly’s in my stomach until her friend came up to her and grab her arm to bring her to the bar… At that time I didn’t knew that her friend have told her that I was interested. A week after we started talking in Facebook and we were suppose to meet at her place but she wasn’t sure she could make it because of her work that evening… Her roommate is one of my friend so I went there talk to her roommate and the girl texted me to say she couldn’t make it this evening. So I said ok no probleme.

    The week after I was talking to her on facebook and I asked her out for a cup of coffee. Since she lived 45 min from my place I said to her I had to go in her town for a meeting (that was true by the way). She told me that she didn’t live there anymore and was moving back in my town and than she said that there was a client coming in her office, she had to go. So I was left with no answer.

    Since then we talked a little bit on facebook but not to much… and then I stop talking to her on facebook just to see her level of interest and if she’s going to reach out for me and it’s been 2 days now and didn’t here from her… What should I do??? Should I ask her out again??? Should I wait???

    ***Little note about her she’s been single for 5 years, she’s super cute, intelligent, calm, almost perfect haha!, but I think she got hurt really bad with her ex and she doesn’t want to get hurt again.

    I hope you can help me with this ! Thank you!!!

  2. Hi Corey I enjoy watching the videos. I have a online girlfriend who is working in Saudi Arabia. Her nationality is Filipino. We Skype & use varied other Apps. She speaks & writes good English. She is a teacher. I am a Englishman & a Teacher. In communication with my Girlfriend sometimes due to the differences in the way I chat & text as a Englishman some words mean different meanings depending on the context within the English Language. Like some words mean different things in the American English.
    I informed her in chat that I think of her as a lover & a friend. In her understanding she thought I thought of her as only a friend. She got very upset. Crying & basically very unhappy. I did not realize that in the Philippines you must never say you wish to be friends.In her understanding this is what I thought of her as a friend only. In the end I was able to console her. But it was not easy Filipino women are emotional & get feisty. We are meeting in April next year when she returns home to the Philippines. We have been for 5 months doing online communication daily. Several times a day & in the evening when she is in bed it is sexual sometimes. I would like a break from being online to gather my thoughts. She is clingy & gets very jealous & checks my face book often. I feel I have a shadow following me everywhere. Yes she is passionate & sends me naked videos & photos of herself. She is doing all the things a woman does when she is in love or infatuated. After we were on Skype together for the first time. She sent me a message later. I am sorry but I am informing you that I not only like you I am now in love with you I cannot help it. What is your opinion of love at first sight? Are women more likely to fall in love at first sight? I remained calm with this information. But over the months the feelings we have are even stronger now.

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