Speak Fearlessly From Your Heart

How to speak fearlessly from your heart in a charming but naughty way to create sexual attraction with your girl. There comes a point in every relationship when two people are in love and they start coming up with cute names for each other. They are simple sweet ways that men and women communicate their affection, adoration and love for their lover other than simply saying I love you. Think about it this way, it would get pretty old after a while of only hearing I love you’s as an expression of affection for one another. You take on a sweet tone to your voice which I will demonstrate in the video for this article. The following is an e-mail from a reader whose girlfriend would like him to be a little sweeter and more charming when he talks to her because he’s being a little bit of a cold fish. She wants him to loosen up a little bit and not be so serious. He’s unsure of how to approach this and what to say. My comments are (in bold brackets like this) in the body of his e-mail:

Hello Corey,

I wanted to ask you about what people refer to as “lovey dovey.” Now I know you did a newsletter on what thoughts & feelings you should share with a girlfriend, but my issue is slightly different. My girlfriend wants me to be much more “cute,” which in her translation is saying things such as “I love you and am always here for you baby,” or “I’ll always hold you close to my heart.” (She wants you to be more charming instead of parroting “I love you’s” back to her all the time. You say it in other sweet charming ways such as coming up with sweet pet names for her. Some of mine: “baby, snookums, sweetums, love bug, sweet pea, love munchkin, buttercup, my favorite soft taco, etc.” I’m perverted that way. I say things like, “I want you more than a fat kid wants cake. You’re my favorite drug. Your body is a wonderland, etc.”) I’m not the greatest at expressing feelings even when they’re there. (Expressing your feelings is for women to do. A man speaks from his heart without fear. His compliments are real and sincere, but do not need or seek approval or gratitude for them when given. They are simply a statement of fact and what is. It’s your gift to your woman and you don’t expect anything back.”) I’ve had to witness many hardships early in life such as the death of an older brother, rejection from a parent, and continuous bullying from my peers just to name a few. (That’s just your story. The past does not equal the future. Besides, nobody gets out of life alive. It’s a gift you should enjoy while it lasts, because when your times up, your times up!) Like many people who experience these things in life, I’ve developed an internal “poker face.” In other words, I can mask my feelings very well, & it’s become second nature. While I’ve said some of the “cute” things she’s wanted me to say, it can feel a little awkward at times despite the fact the feelings behind the words are real. My question is whether or not this is something I should religiously practice to get good at. (You must be who you are, what you should be is not important. Honor you. You can download the Amazon Kindle version of my book to your Smartphone, PC, Mac or iPad in under 60 seconds for only $9.99 by CLICKING HERE to learn how to meet and date the type of women you’ve always wanted and have effortless relationships.)

Thanks in advance for your answer,

Irvin

“A man does what he must — in spite of personal consequences, in spite of obstacles and dangers and pressures.” ~ John Kennedy