Here’s some of the stupid things guys do out of their desire to be loved and accepted by women they want. What you should focus on instead so you can be successful and not make yourself look like a jackass.
In this video coaching newsletter I discuss four different emails from four different viewers. In the first email the viewer has allowed himself to fall in love with a woman who he met on a sugar baby looking for a sugar daddy type of arrangement website. He gives her money and pays her bills in return for sex. He says she cares for him. He’s married by the way.
The other three emails are from guys who are more focused on what they can get from the women they want and desire instead of what they can contribute and give. Therefore, their dating and relationships are not working out as they had planned.
“Instead of being focused on whether or not someone likes you, focus on what you can give authentically from your heart in order to make them feel special. Give the gift of your smile, an authentic compliment, your time, your presence, your embrace, etc. If you only focus on what YOU want from them, it will cause you to come off as manipulative, inauthentic, controlling, approval seeking, creepy, weird, etc. See yourself as a gift to others and act accordingly. Those who appreciate the gift of you and want more will give back. When you give to a giver the giver will give back; takers will only suck.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne