Success, Ambition & Attraction

Why women are more attracted to men who are successful, ambitious and are pursuing a mission and purpose in life that is emotionally compelling to them, than men who have no real purpose or passion in life. Why women will slowly lose attraction for their men over time if they lose their job, business and success they had when they first got together.

In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a viewer who was very successful and well off financially when he met his girlfriend. After two and a half years of dating she dumped him. What changed? He lost his job and all his money. He became depressed and wallowed in his misery instead of pulling himself up by his bootstraps and getting a new job to turn things around. I explain why she dumped him and did not stay committed to staying together forever no matter what.

“Masculine energy embodies success, ambition, goals, mission and purpose in life. Women are much more attracted to men who know what they want, why they want it and are taking action to achieve it, than men who don’t know what their purpose in life is or who have unexpectedly seen their success, business or wealth disappear. A woman will support a man going through a hard time for a while, but if he only complains about his situation and does not do much or do enough in her eyes to help himself or turn things around, eventually she will lose attraction and respect for him to the point that she dumps him. A man must not let challenges, setbacks, job loss, business failure, financial hardship, etc., diminish him to the point that he gives up or stops trying to turn things around in his life. If he does, she will no longer trust his masculine core and it won’t be long before he finds himself being unexpectedly dumped by his woman.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne