In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a viewer who had a great first date with a woman who really liked him… at first. They even kissed at the end of their first date. He met her though an internet dating site. A few days later he texted her to try and arrange a 2nd date. She was unavailable and unsure of her schedule. He correctly told her to call him once she knew her schedule. She said she would.
The very next day he texted her. Over the next month he continued to send her pointless texts in his attempt to get her to like him, but he was simply being needy and desperate. Numerous times he told her to contact him when she knew her schedule, and then did not wait for her to do it. He literally talked her right out of dating him. He sent her approval seeking pics of him with US Senators and talked about expensive dates he would take her on, etc. This video newsletter is a classic case of how to fuck up a good thing unnecessarily.
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“Attraction is not a choice. Women have no control over the men who they instantly find sexually attractive, any more than men have control over who they instantly find sexually attractive. The problem most men have who are unsuccessful with women is that when they do encounter women where the sexual attraction is mutual, they literally talk these women right out of liking them. Lack of knowledge of pickup, body language, communication, attraction and dating skills, in addition to irrational fear based thinking, is what leads to their failure. In order for men to successfully attract and seduce women who like them, they need to fill in their knowledge gap, practice this new knowledge and continually interact with a steady stream of new women. Success then becomes not a matter of hope, but simply a matter of time. Time and repetition of correct thinking and action will eventually lead to success. My book, “How To Be A 3% Man, Winning The Heart Of The Woman Of Your Dreams,” provides the essential knowledge and skills. The rest is up to the unsuccessful man to practice, so he can become easily and effortlessly successful, instead of constantly turning women off and pushing them away.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne