How to determine when to back off to create attraction without your woman telling you that you are coming on too strong and pushing you away. How to save a failing relationship and how to cause your woman to want to make love more and more and want to spend time with you more and more.
In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a viewer who is working to re-attracting his wife of 23 years. He’s made some progress since he first emailed me, but he’s still making mistakes, getting impatient and trying to get more from his wife than she is ready to give. However, with a little more tweaking he will be able to get her to fall back in love with him again.
“The purpose of all relationships is that you go there to give. Two people come together to share their completeness, not complete each other. When you feel inadequate, unloved or that your lover is slipping away, the worst thing you can do is to pursue them in order to validate yourself and that they still love you. This very act is needy insecure behavior that will make you appear as if you feel like you don’t deserve them. We all want to be loved without attachments or a loss of our freedom, but not to be loved by someone who feels like they need us in order to feel good about themselves. We want an equal, a teammate. Not an energy vampire that drains us or makes us feel like we can’t be ourselves or that we will lose our freedom by being with them.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne