Why it’s the man’s role to initiate the courtship by making his intentions clear and taking action. Why it’s the woman’s role to open up to receive and pursue a relationship with him once he has made her feel safe and comfortable enough to trust his masculine core as the leader, so she no longer feels the need to hold back and protect her heart.
In this video coaching newsletter I discuss two different emails from two different viewers. The first email is from a viewer who has been following what I teach for about six months. He said at first he did not believe that what I teach would work. Over the past six months he lost 80 pounds, got a better job and upgraded his wardrobe. This past weekend he was out with some buddies at a bar. The hot girl who walks around with a tray of alcohol shots to sell to horny guys who usually go home alone approached him and his friends. His friends bought shots. He did not, but offered her something intriguing instead. He said a few humorous things to her to create attraction and plant the seeds of seduction, and then he went about his evening with his friends.
About an hour later she comes over to tell him that she gets off in twenty minutes. A half hour later they were in bed having sex. I reveal what he said and why it worked and how you can use the same technique in your own life. The second email is from a woman who asks me about an article about “the rules” which tell women to not call or pursue guys and why women will tend to pursue more.
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“Men should always be clear about their intentions with women when they have romantic interest and not hide or mask their attraction by falsely acting uninterested or as if they are only interested in being friends. A man should not be focused on whether or not a woman is interested in him or seeking her approval, but instead be focused on whether or not he is interested in her enough to want to pursue things romantically. It’s the man’s role to initiate and start the courtship by clearly communicating his romantic intentions and taking action to get contact information or set dates. Once the woman is made to feel safe and comfortable enough to open her heart to him by the strength of his character and actions, she will willingly embrace her natural instinctive role of wanting to bond and connect with him more and more over time. Once the snowball of the courtship has been pushed over the edge of the hill so to speak, the woman will naturally and willingly pursue and chase him in order to receive his strength and presence.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne