The Courtship Is Initiated By Men

Apr 1, 2014 by Coach Corey Wayne

125955347Why it’s the man’s role to initiate the courtship by making his intentions clear and taking action. Why it’s the woman’s role to open up to receive and pursue a relationship with him once he has made her feel safe and comfortable enough to trust his masculine core as the leader, so she no longer feels the need to hold back and protect her heart.

In this video coaching newsletter I discuss two different emails from two different viewers. The first email is from a viewer who has been following what I teach for about six months. He said at first he did not believe that what I teach would work. Over the past six months he lost 80 pounds, got a better job and upgraded his wardrobe. This past weekend he was out with some buddies at a bar. The hot girl who walks around with a tray of alcohol shots to sell to horny guys who usually go home alone approached him and his friends. His friends bought shots. He did not, but offered her something intriguing instead. He said a few humorous things to her to create attraction and plant the seeds of seduction, and then he went about his evening with his friends.

About an hour later she comes over to tell him that she gets off in twenty minutes. A half hour later they were in bed having sex. I reveal what he said and why it worked and how you can use the same technique in your own life. The second email is from a woman who asks me about an article about “the rules” which tell women to not call or pursue guys and why women will tend to pursue more.

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“Men should always be clear about their intentions with women when they have romantic interest and not hide or mask their attraction by falsely acting uninterested or as if they are only interested in being friends. A man should not be focused on whether or not a woman is interested in him or seeking her approval, but instead be focused on whether or not he is interested in her enough to want to pursue things romantically. It’s the man’s role to initiate and start the courtship by clearly communicating his romantic intentions and taking action to get contact information or set dates. Once the woman is made to feel safe and comfortable enough to open her heart to him by the strength of his character and actions, she will willingly embrace her natural instinctive role of wanting to bond and connect with him more and more over time. Once the snowball of the courtship has been pushed over the edge of the hill so to speak, the woman will naturally and willingly pursue and chase him in order to receive his strength and presence.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne

Published on April 1, 2014

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  1. Here is a success story for you where I know I would have otherwise blown it with a girl I have been seeing for about a month.

    Her and I are in a somewhat long distance relationship (2 hour drive). We met on Tinder and initially meeting up was her idea. We hit the bedroom olympics the first night at her place after a night out at an arts festival in her city.

    My problem has always been maintaining the attraction. One month after meeting things have been great until recently. She hung up on me for calling her three hours after she had messaged me she wanted to talk on the phone. This was no doubt a shit test and I decided I was going to go to sleep and give her a call tomorrow because I did appreciate the fact she hung up on me.

    I actually remember a specific conversation with her where she said a guy worth keeping is the one who will chase his woman when she’s upset. Thankfully, I read your book. I called once in the morning with no answer and left a voicemail saying “Hey baby, I’m really looking forward to seeing you in the mini skirt you were talking about this weekend. Give me a call back when you wanna chat!” And I LET IT GO.

    Three hours pass and she texts me saying “Hey babe I’d love to chat but I’m busy right now. I will call you later.” I replied “Okay talk to you then.” That may have been the longest seven hours of my life before she finally called to tell me and say “I was never really that made, just irritated. I didn’t notice you called! I was so busy I swear I didn’t notice! You’re not mad at me are you?!” Mind you this is one of those women where I walk in with her at a restaurant and female servers, hostesses, and diners turn their heads at her and immediately at me when we walk by.

    After we “made up” (I didn’t say a word) we talked on the phone for about an hour before I closed out by telling her how intoxicating she’s going to look when I see her that Friday. Not only did she giggle for a good 30 seconds straight, but after getting off the phone she started sending pictures of what underwear I’d like her to wear, then let me know how wet she was getting imagining me inside of her and I of course couldn’t help but give her a call back and help her finish the story!

    Your book has showed me less is more. As terrified as I was to not call back and ask to work things out, I stuck to my guns and I was rewarded with a woman who knows I’m willing to walk when I don’t get my way. I cannot believe how well it worked and have nothing but great praise for your advice in the books.

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