What you should do when your girlfriend dumps you & the last time you tried to talk her into getting back together it didn’t go so well. The pros and cons to calling her after only a few weeks of not hearing from her, instead of walking away and meaning it. Why the overwhelming feeling that you should call her when you have not heard from her in several weeks is simply another manifestation of needy pursuing tendencies.
In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a viewer who got dumped by his girlfriend of five years. They were only seeing each other once a month before she dumped him because he had become lazy and complacent. He says he walked away after telling her that he was not interested in being friends only, yet he continues to send BS texts and bullshit himself into reaching out to her every few weeks. His actions communicate that he did not mean it. Now after not hearing from her after three weeks, he wants to call again and try to make a date. He asks me if I think it will work. “The ultimate negotiating position is being able to walk away, and mean it.” ~ Michael Yon
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