Why feeling like you need to do something to create attraction or re-attract someone you pushed away is needy insecure behavior that will always lead to you getting rejected.
“It’s much better to learn to go with the flow in life. People will often try to force things that do not seem to be going well or effortlessly. That may be pushing a client to make a decision before they are ready, asking a lover to be exclusive before you’ve really gotten to know each other, pushing your body too hard when trying to get into shape or simply trying to force things to happen faster than it’s possible. There are no short cuts to success. A rose takes it’s time to bloom for a reason. You can’t over water, over fertilize, over stimulate or over expose a rose to sunlight to make it bloom faster. All you will do with excessive action is kill the rose. That’s something to think about.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne