Why its always better for the man to set the tone in the relationship as being one of playfulness, excellent communication and having fun together; even when life brings shitty circumstances such as a death in the family, illness, etc. Why women want men to always be the leader and their emotional rock in the relationship.
In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a viewer who is having trouble opening his girlfriend up so she’s playful and fun again, because she’s taking a death in the family very hard. Since she is unhappy it is frustrating to her boyfriend, because after all… men feel responsible for a woman’s happiness or unhappiness. His ability to snap her out of it so they can have fun again directly impacts his ability to feel successful as a man in the relationship. When men feel unsuccessful at making their women happy in a relationship, they tend to withdraw.
“A leader LEAD’S from the FRONT, not the rear.” ~ Richard Marcinko, Founder of SEAL Team 6