How to properly use the power of the takeaway when trying to set dates with women who have low interest in seeing you to change their perception of you, find you more attractive and become eager to set and keep dates with you.
In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email success story from a guy who I have been coaching for about a year and a half. He originally found my work after the love of his life blew him off and started dating another guy. He really struggled to let go of her and for a long time kept blowing his chances to get her back when she reached out because he was too overeager, weak, compliant and desperate to be with her again. He dated and hooked up with new women, and as he perfected his skills and came to experience that he really did have choices with women, his confidence and masculinity grew.
Earlier this year I discussed his progress in the video newsletter titled, “The Subtle Nuances Of Attraction & Seduction.” It’s now been seven months since they started dating and sleeping together again. She says he is so much more confident and sure of himself now. She is in love with him, does 100% of the pursuing and is exclusive with him. He is very happy and so is she.
“We all deserve to be loved by someone who adores us, finds us sexy and who thinks we are amazing. However, our behavior and actions must be congruent with allowing someone to love us. This means that we must be willing to walk away from potential or current lovers who take us for granted, disrespect us or who simply do not reciprocate interest. We must learn to recognize when our egos have become attached to people who lack interest or who do treat us the way we want to be treated and move on to find someone else. The strongest negotiation position is being able to walk away for good and mean it. When you walk away, you take your power back and state to the universe that you will not settle or tolerate anything less than what you really want and deserve. As long as you continue to live this way as your truth, eventually you will come across someone who is exactly what you are looking for and deserve. Most people do not have the courage to do that. If you do, then one day you will have a love that others envy, and that opens your heart in ways you can not even fathom.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne