Here’s his first email:
I’ve had it in for this girl for a long time, but she persists on not seeing me. It seems almost like she lost interest, because before, she was showing strong signs of having interest in me. How do I win the interest back that she had in me, and get her to meet me sometime so I can express how I really feel about her, instead of her being in control of whether we should meet each other or not?
That’s why I am having trouble. I’m trying to show this girl how I could be the one for her if we just took the chance to meet one another. How do I show her she is the only one for me, and she would need no one else by us meeting?
My response to his first email:
I can tell from your emails that it has been a long time since you read my book. You have made so many mistakes, I don’t know where to start. First, you need to re-read my book again. You must get to know the material in my book so well, that you could give a seminar on it. If you are not willing to take the time to learn the fundamentals, you will continually make unnecessary mistakes and blow your chances with great girls.
You are obviously projecting your own high interest level onto this girl. NEVER TRY TO KEEP SOMEONE WHO DOES NOT WANT TO KEEP YOU. You make yourself sound like a stalker, which will creep any woman out. CUT IT OUT!!!!!! Women do not care about your interest level in them. They only care about their interest level in you. In this case, you have done a good job of turning this girl off. She obviously does not want to talk to you or see you. Grow a set a balls and admit to yourself that your approach has not worked. You did not take the time to learn the material in my book and have suffered the consequences. The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result.
Turn off your TV and start investing some time in bettering yourself and learning how to treat women properly. You sound like a typical man who has allowed himself to be brainwashed by trash TV, accepting a false view of reality and the way women really are. Acting like a stalker gets the girls in TV and movies, but does not work in real life. Women want a guy who acts like a man. You must keep in mind, these garbage TV programs are usually written by the same type of geeks in high school who never got laid. They still do not understand women, yet they write TV shows that influence the thinking and beliefs of millions of people worldwide.
Here’s his second email:
Yeah, but I want this girl. I hate to say it, we may be opposites. I see some kind of attraction between us, but she thinks I’ve changed and I’m not the same person I used to be. She didn’t even know who I used to be. I was always the way I am now. I’ve got to find out if this girl is the one. I think she feels the same way I feel about her, and that is, she wants me to die and I want her to die. Why can’t we just die for that love together, because maybe that if I took that chance to get to meet with her before when she was around, then we would have loved each other, and maybe even been made for each other. Now it’s probably too late. She probably found someone else when I was gone for a year serving my country or has changed herself. Now she is probably a whore or going around fucking some other guy — probably her new man. And once women get a hold of, (pardon my French), that dick, they are in another world. They are no longer in this world. As soon as that happens, they are lost forever. I might as well be erased. All I know is that she needs to get over being an egocentric, materialistic bitch, because that is what they all are.
My response to his second email:
This girl is not “the one.” There is another bus every fifteen minutes. There are tons of great women who know nothing about you that you could be meeting right now if you took the time to improve and educate yourself. If you learn what you need to and act upon it, YOU can determine how they see and view you. Everything you need is in the members area of my website (the digital version is on my website and is available for FREE to anyone who wants to improve themselves). I suggest you take advantage of that.
I checked my records and see that you purchased my book and CD’s in 2007, kept them for 4 months and then returned it to my office for a refund. You also returned the book in a condition that looked like your dog ate it. Its been over a year and a half since I had anyone return my book & CD’s. To me it looks like you were just trying to rip me off, but I can tell from your emails that in the end, you only fucked yourself over. Good job.
Women like men who have integrity. Its time to grow up and start acting like a man. My information is available for FREE. If you are unwilling to help yourself, then you deserve what you get. You must participate in your own rescue. Something to think about.
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