In this video coaching newsletter I discuss two different emails from two different viewers. The first email is from a viewer who details his several months long effort to tame his own neurotic desires to pursue a woman who was bouncing back and forth between him and her ex-boyfriend. He finally slept with her when she became single, but then she decided to give her ex another chance. She continued to reach out to him and he finally started becoming congruent with his words of stating he was not interested in talking with her until she was done with her ex for good. She continued to reach out and test him due to his previous weakness and tendencies to pursue, but it’s a great example how how a man can overcome his fears, back off and practice infinite patience no matter what a woman he desires does. The second email is from a viewer who for the first time in his life started dating a woman who was a total ten in his eyes. After four dates and numerous mistakes of over pursuing, over texting, becoming part of her social circle, getting angry at her when she did not do what he wanted, she banished him to friends zone. After finding my work he now realizes what he did wrong and asks what he can do to get another chance. What makes it really hard for him is that she really liked him at first and she kissed him first. Two great examples of the difference between exercising self control leading to a successful seduction, and losing self control leading to rejection.
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“Most people tend to seek out and expect instant results in their career, business, romantic relationships or the success that they seek. Learning to practice infinite patience in all matters of life and the heart, is essential to the prevention of suffering when things don’t go according to plan. Persistence, perseverance and adaptation of one’s approach as you take action towards your goals and dreams, will move you forward to eventual success. However, if you are impatient because you do not have the results you want right now, you will not enjoy your life journey as much as you will when you practice infinite patience as you take daily action. When the right opportunities and people come along, they will fit like a glove and just feel right. All others should be viewed as essential obstacles to be overcome, acquisition of skills and knowledge, preparation and practice that are necessary precursors to establish the right conditions, so your dreams can SLOWLY and effortlessly manifest.”~ Coach Corey Wayne