Trust Your Gut With Women Or You’ll Regret It Later

Why you should trust your gut with women or you’ll regret the consequences.

In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a viewer who experienced a total freak show dating experience when he didn’t listen to his gut. He got the feeling early on that she was a little nutty. However, he kept giving her the benefit of the doubt. He shares one of the craziest stories I’ve ever heard from a viewer after meeting her family at their Super Bowl party. My comments are in bold italics like this below in the body of his email.

Hi, I’m Coach Corey Wayne and this is my Video Coaching Newsletter. And the topic of today’s Newsletter is going to be, “Trust Your Gut With Women Or You’ll Regret It Later”.

So this particular email is from; this is one of those emails you read and you’re like, this can’t be real life. There’s some stuff that happens here that in the 20 plus years I’ve been doing this, I’ve never got an email like this saying this kind of stuff was going on.

So this guy meets this girl, he starts asking her questions. He’s trying to vet her. She reveals that her family is a total train wreck, but she’s hot and she’s down to hook up. So he thought, “What the hell?”

Anyways, he dated her for a little bit and just writes in and shares because basically from the moment he met his Spidey Senses were tingling going, “Dude, don’t do it, don’t do it. Stay away from this girl.” But he didn’t listen. So it’s a good email.

Viewer Email:

Hi Corey,

I hope you’re having an awesome day. I’m writing to let you know about a “nutty buddy” that on met online. It’s a little long but I think it’s a good reason of why you should listen to your gut feeling. In December of 2025 I matched with this girl on the Hily dating app and instantly hit it off. She was around a 7 or an 8 in being interested in me. She lived 2 hours from me.

Boy, that’s a long drive for a girl. But hey, when you’re young and you like to travel, you get to see a new city. You’ve got a hot tour guide. There are benefits to it. It’s much better if she lives like ten, 15 minutes away.

But I didn’t have a problem because She was always super enthusiastic to talk to me and I could tell she was pursuing me. So in the first week of January I took her out on a date. It was great and we went to the aquarium out to eat and then mini golf. During this time I should’ve known something was off because she was adamant about not having sex until marriage.

It’s kind of like. Yeah, sure she is.

I brushed it off because I know women will bend the rules for men they like. At the end of the date however she broke down crying and complained about how she hates men.

Major red flag.

Because they only want sex and then leave.

And then when you hear about this girl’s history, you’re like, whoa, some bad things have happened to her. It’s not your job to fix her or to save her. To be Captain Save-A-Hoe. If you’re looking for a stable, healthy, long term relationship, make sure she was raised in a good, stable family where a good example was provided for them, even if the parents got divorced. They both have good relationships, especially her relationship with her father has to be a good one.

And if it’s not just like you’ll see what happened to this girl, you shouldn’t be surprised. You don’t try to wife up girls from broken homes. 99.999% of them will never do the work that they need to do in order to fix themselves or get over things that happened in childhood, trauma, etc., etc..

I assured her that I wasn’t going to do that. Because I genuinely liked the girl.

She was hot. That’s all you were thinking. You just wanted to smash.

So I left without sex thinking everything’s is great. I should’ve left then. Some time passed with no issues on the second date and now The third date rolls around and it’s Super Bowl weekend.

Remember, I typically say no group dates, but in this case, she wants him to come over and meet her family for the Super Bowl.

She invites me to her mom’s house for a party and I think “great I’ll make a good impression on mom and dad so they know I’m serious about their daughter.”

You should be going, “Well, this would be great because it’ll give me a lot of good Intel of mom and dad and what their relationship is really like. So I can determine whether or not if I decide I want to have a family, if I want them grandparenting my kids.”

So I drove to her house to pick her up and during the drive she calls me to tell me about her family’s backstory (I definitely should’ve left). She told me about how her mom is a chronic alcoholic and her stepdad is a drug dealer that tried to touch her when she was 14.

Oh, that’s just lovely.

Now in my head I’m thinking “what the hell have I gotten myself into” but wait there’s more.

Coach, if you just pay a little extra, we’ll. And double your shipping and handling will double your fun.

She also told me that her biological dad cheated on her mom when they were together and ended up getting the mistress pregnant but during the time she was pregnant her dad raped this woman’s daughter and getting her pregnant as well.

Huh? That’s some deliverance. That’s like back country stuff. That’s like trailer park stuff. Trailer park drama. We got drama happening at the trailer park.

After that though I just figured I would leave her after the party. 

I’ll just leave after the party. It’ll be entertaining no matter what happens, right? But wait, there’s more.

So we finally arrived at her mother’s house and immediately I saw I different person in her. She turned from nice, quiet and calm to loud, brash and trashy it completely turned me off. So now I’m at the parents’ house and the mom is drunk before the party started and the stepdad gives me an edible to take. I declined and that caused him to call me every single black racial slur under the sun and made him want to fight me.

Oh, you don’t like my edibles? My edibles are not good enough to you. Well, how about some rights and some laughs? Holy shit. I’ve never heard anybody get take that personally. Oh, you don’t want their edible. What’s wrong with you?

During the time the girl I was with ran into the back to grab her brother because I could take shelter there.

Oh. That’s wonderful.

So now I’m in the brother’s room confused about what happened.

He’s thinking, oh, shit. I showed up for a trailer park version of Fight Club.

And that’s when the mom came in slurring her words about how the stepdad is a good guy.

He’s really a good guy. He’s good to know, but give him a chance. This is just fine. Just take his edibles. He makes them himself in the backyard, under the tree.

I just brushed it off and decided it was just him trying to intimidate me. After that the stepdad walks in apologized and sat in the mom’s lap.

I don’t think I’ve ever seen a man sit in a woman’s lap like that unless he’s goofing around. But maybe she’s a large woman. Maybe he’s a little man. Maybe like Dudley Moore, Susan Anton. Susan Anton was like really tall. Dudley Moore was like, really short.

Well one thing led to another and they started having sex in front of me my date and her brother.

I’ve never read anything like that in the 20 plus years I’ve been doing this. Okay, well, that’s entertaining,

Corey I was only there for an hour at this point. So my date was upset with her family.

It’s like you think a little bit.

And tells me how she doesn’t talk to them because they are over the top.

Well, she just wanted to get it all out of the way. Hey, here’s the whole freak show on our third date.

I still don’t know why I didn’t leave.

Because you just wanted to see what’s going to happen next. What else could possibly happen? This is so entertaining. It’s like, I’ve got to see what else happens next. What are they going to do for an encore?

So that night we ended up having sex and things only got worse from there.

Yeah. So after all that, he’s like, yeah, I’m gonna bone your daughter. Absolutely. Good thinking. Man.

She told me on the fourth date that I have to call her every single day because she’s lonely and misses me. At first, I thought it was cute but it got annoying fast.

It’s like, yeah, that’s not natural. You want to be able to text good morning or good night or good afternoon randomly when you’re feeling it, because then it’s a true gift from the heart. If you’re doing it like a robot because mommy and daddy didn’t give her enough hugs, well, I mean, clearly she’s messed up. But he’s like, oh, I’ll just have sex anyways. What could go wrong? Oh, you could slip one past the goalie and now you have a deliverance baby.

She wanted to talk when I woke up, when I was at work for 12 hours, when I got home from work and took a shower, and even when I slept.

Well girls are annoying like that. They want your attention all the fucking time when they love you. But if they come from a broken home, they want you even more.

At this point I’m thinking “she’s fucking nutty” but she still likes me.

So there’s that.

I tried it and the first day in I immediately hated it because I have things to do than be on the phone all day so I missed the second day and she blew up on me and said I wasn’t a real man.

Easygoing, easy to get along with. And she’s got to be nice to you. She’s got to make your dick hard. Not your life. Is she making his dick hard or is she making his life hard? He thought, hey, I’ll take her for a test run. What’s the worst that can happen?

Said I wasn’t a real man because I won’t take care of her likes she wants to.

In other words, you won’t jump through your butt to please her.

It’s only been 3 months but it feels like I’m married already. It’s now the third day after this and she’s already in a bad mood I told her your needs are unrealistic and you need to find a therapist because you are too obsessive.

I’m sure, that went over like a lead balloon.

After that I broke things off and never contacted her again because I felt like I was losing my sanity.

So if any of you guys out there have that gut feeling with a girl please listen to it because it’ll save you a lot of stress, time and money.

Bob

Dude, three months. You should get an award for that. I can’t believe you proceeded anyways. You’re one of those dudes that like the crazy girls, man. I had a friend that was like, that guy used to work for me. It was like his little tiny, barely 105, 103 pound cute little girlfriend kicked his solid core wood door in. Threw a beer bottle at his head. Got all violent on him.

He got a restraining order and then he let it expire. And soon, the day after it expired, he was boning her in the ass because he liked the crazy sex. I was like, and I remember I still see it to this day. It was like, so what happened? He went, “Ugh.” “You fucked her again, didn’t you?” He’s like, “Dude, I love fuck her in the ass. She loves it. She goes crazy over it.”

I was like, “You’re a sick fuck, dude.” People are freaks. What can you say? So if any of you guys out there have the gut feeling with the girl, please listen to it, because it’ll save you a lot of stress, time and money. Well, I mean, these are the kinds of things that, like dudes in the NFL and the NBA do, and they hook up with these girls and they do it anyways, and then it gets all over TMZ.

They’ve got paternity suits, especially when they live in blue states. It’s like, man, you’re just going to be giving up a lot of dough, a lot of dough. I just saw what’s his name, Cam Ward. I think it is not Cam Ward. Uh, Travis. Travis Hunter. I think he wifed up a girl, and, uh, Deion’s kids are like, dude, get a prenup. Don’t do it.

And he didn’t listen, and now he’s making videos bitching about how she took half his rookie year. She took like half the money he made in college. And now he’s got to give up half his money in his first NFL contract. And on top of that, she’s been cheating on him left and right.

It’s like, oh man, dude, come on. Think about it. Think about what you’re doing. I mean, this is like an obvious one. Most guys are like, but some guys, like they can’t help themselves. So it’s a good cautionary tale. Thanks for writing in.

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