The importance of learning to trust our intuition and inner voice, and how this helps center us emotionally and puts us into a resourceful, peaceful and relaxed state, so we can achieve our grandest goals and dreams and attract the perfect friends and lovers.
In this video coaching newsletter, I discuss an email from a viewer who shares some of the epiphanies he has had after he recently found my work and started reading my book. He says he was skeptical at first, but after reading many of the examples and stories in my book, he was able to connect a lot of dots and get some clarity on his personal situation which is causing him a lot of emotional turmoil. He has been able to realize his problems stem from his fears and insecurities, and now he has a better sense of what to do going forward.
He says he had not been courageous enough up until now to face the simple truth of how his pain and suffering is self-inflicted. It’s another great, simple success story of how a little knowledge can dramatically change your inner and external worlds for the better, so you can achieve your outcomes in your personal life. My comments are in (bold parenthesis like this below) in the body of his email.
This is just a short notice to extend a big fat thank you to you! I just came across your website and your free eBook today while searching for some advice in a current situation of great emotional turmoil caused by – well, I think I don’t need to state the obvious here. I must admit that I was very skeptical at first, suspecting that this was just the material of another run-of-the-mill pick-up artist, but oh boy, was I wrong! (I’m a life coach, not a pickup artist. Being successful in your personal life is really about having your shit together in your life as a whole. It’s about having a purpose and a mission that is emotionally compelling to you.) Leafing through your eBook, reading your own personal experiences, failures and learning processes and, most of all, realizing once more through your dead-on examples and explanations the simple and brutal, yet at the same time reassuring and powerful, truth that 100% of our problems, fears and insecurities are caused by ourselves, and that we’re 100% in charge of changing that – well, that simple yet overwhelming realization just simply brought the tears to my eyes. Tears of joy as well as tears of regret that obviously, I haven’t been courageous enough so far to face that simple truth much earlier in my life, which would have spared me a lot of purely self-inflicted pain. (We as human beings won’t change our belief system and flawed approach until we realize it’s not working for us and admit to ourselves we are ready and open for change.)
I’m going to spend the rest of the night finishing your eBook which, even though much of it should be obvious to every grown-up man, if only we would be much more in touch with our instincts, our intuitions and our unerring inner voice, truly is an invaluable source of consolation, advice and powerful help to any guy trying to mend a broken heart and doing better the next time round. (Society is all about conforming, doing what everybody else does, being realistic and settling for less. It’s important to have clarity, to have a vision for your life and to have a mission for who you want to become and the kind of life and lifestyle you want to create. When you have something compelling in your life, you can tune out the noise, and you won’t be willing to settle.) Reading your book is just like talking to your best buddy in times of serious emotional trouble – with the vital difference that most of our best buddies are just as clueless as we are when it comes to botched matters of the heart. (Most people make excuses for staying the way they are. You will leave those people behind and attract people who are more successful in the areas you’d like to be successful, and they will have a positive influence on you. They will push you to be better, because they are on the same journey as you. It’s important to have the support of people around you who believe in you and encourage you to reach your full potential.)
Thank you so much again, and of course you’ll find an appropriate donation on your PayPal account very soon, once I’m finished reading! (I definitely appreciate your donations.)
All my best wishes, and keep up the great work! (Every guy knows some amount, but my book will help you fill in your knowledge gaps.)
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“Our birthright and natural state of being is one of abundance, courage and success. We literally were born to succeed and already have within us all we need to accomplish our grandest goals and dreams. The only way you can accomplish your grandest goals and dreams is to be brave enough to step outside of your current comfort zone and move towards the things you want, but fear might not be possible. Success only comes after you pay the price on your journey by taking action, in spite of your fears, putting in the time to improve yourself, developing your skills, learning from your mistakes, adapting and refining your approach, and becoming what you need to be, so reaching your full potential is simply a matter of time and repetition.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne
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