In this video coaching newsletter, I discuss an email from a viewer who shares his recent success story of how he was able to turn his life and relationship around with his ex-girlfriend and mother of his one-year old son. They were originally together for two years. He thought everything was going great. After reading my book, he realized he had stopped dating and courting her properly, but instead became focused on being a money mule and providing for his family.
After he got dumped, he tried chasing and pleading for another chance. Then he found my work and started focusing on taking care of his body, his mission and his purpose in life. He got back to being the great guy he used to be. His ex noticed and even asked him out. Things took off from there, and she has recently told him that she only wanted him to be wining and dining her and to be his girlfriend again. My comments are in (bold parenthesis like this below) in the body of his email.
My name is Bob. I’m a huge fan from across the pond. This is a bit longer than you typically like. I just wanted to tell you how you have saved my relationship and helped me to improve myself as a man and a lover.
I was with my girl Samantha for 2 years. We lived together and have a 1-year old boy. Everything was going great, or so I thought. Around 7 months ago, I was working long hours to try to provide for my family, (Most guys tend to do that. They figure they live together, so there’s no need to go out together) but I never really took the time to make Samantha feel special. I got home from work and just wanted to watch TV, play with my boy and sleep. We stopped doing date nights, were not really talking, and the only time I got my wiener wet was in the shower! One day out of the blue, she said she wasn’t sure of her feelings, (What she was really saying was, she didn’t want to be with you anymore), and wanted to go back to her mother’s for a few weeks to have some space. I turned typical beta male, called and texted her all the time and would stay too long when I came to collect my son. I would always ask to try again and was just pathetic and needy. Eventually, she told me that I was suffocating her, and she would always love me, but that we were better off as friends. I agreed. (A lot of guys do that.)
I came across your YouTube channel and bought your book. I’m on the 9th reread of it, and it blew my mind. I practiced what you taught, and I focused on what I wanted in life, my career and the type of love life I wanted. I changed my dead-end job, became a fireman, and joined a gym to get in shape. I started to get lots of female attention and had a few dates. I told Samantha that I was only interested in a romantic relationship, friendship wasn’t for me, and we ceased contact except for seeing my son. (Get all of your arrangements handled ahead of time, so there’s no reason to reach out to each other, and move on with your life as if it’s over.) Two months later, I went to pick up my son when Samantha said how good I was looking and how happy I seemed to be. (You’re giving off a different vibe. You’re happy and smiling more.) I told her I was back to my old self, and she then asked me out on a date to see if there was still anything there. I said, “Saturday, 8 pm?” She said, “Sounds great.” We went to dinner to her favorite restaurant the following day, and the flirting and banter was in abundance. (Hang out, have fun and hook up. I say it all the time. Those are the fundamentals. Your job as a man is to create an opportunity for sex to happen.) We were just having a good time together. Later that night, I drove her home, kissed her in my car and she invited me in for a coffee and a session of the indoor Olympics. The next morning I left for work, and she texted me saying how great last night was. I waited a few days to reply to organize a date. (When a woman texts you right after a date, give her a simple response. Don’t ask her out for the next date. If she texts you a couple of days later, then you can ask her out again.) This pattern went on for around a month and I was only using the phone for setting up dates. It was a struggle, but I trusted your work based on my previous success following it. (You were focused on becoming a great dater and communicating better with women. After a breakup, it serves you best to get better.) On one particular date, she asked me if I was dating other girls because I always seemed busy. (It’s a scientific fact that women are more attracted to men whose feelings are unclear.) I just grinned and said, “Jealous?” She said, “Yes. I want you to only wine and dine me.” (I discuss a few different ways to respond to this in my book. When you understand the principles in my book, you’ll know how to respond to each scenario.) I replied, “You want to be my girlfriend again?” She kissed me and nodded her head. (She’s trying to convince you of why you should be exclusive instead of you trying to talk her into it.) Since then, we are practically living together, having a date night at least once a week, (You should always do that. The courtship never ends), she is wearing her engagement ring again, and our sex life is amazing. The other night, she told me she didn’t understand why she couldn’t keep her hands off me at the moment. I know why — because I’m an ALPHA baby!! (Yes you are, and it’s your birthright to be that.) I still go to the gym, continue to be a great father, and I’m progressing in the fire service.
I know this is a longer email than you prefer, but I just had to share my story to show any guys who are in the struggle like me, that if you stop being skeptical and genuinely put this stuff into practice, you get results!! Thanks Coach you’re the best! (Thanks for the great success story. Not only are you changing your life, but those around you as well.)
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“Women love men who have ambition and goals in life. Why? Masculine energy is all about purpose, drive, mission, succeeding, accomplishing, breaking through barriers, overcoming challenges, etc. Men who have ambition and are trying to achieve goals, embody what masculine energy is all about and exude sex appeal. Women are naturally and innately aroused by men who behave this way and are turned off by men who don’t. It is essential for men to always be focused on their passions, purpose and mission in life, and to always date and court their wives or girlfriends properly in order to maintain sexual attraction and polarity.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne
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