How to get off of the sidelines in your personal life, so you can start meeting and dating the kind of people you’ve always wanted and finally experience the kind of relationship where you both can’t get enough of each other.
In this video coaching newsletter, I discuss an email from a viewer who shares some success stories he has recently experienced after reading my book twice, watching several videos and then going out and applying what he learned. He is twenty-five years old and had not kissed a woman since he was sixteen. He felt bad about himself because, while his friends were all experiencing relationships and creating great memories, he was drowning in a sea of self-pity and despair. He went out on one date with a girl who was not that into him, but he kissed her and made out like never before. He lost his virginity to the next girl he started dating. She was really supportive, and things are great between the two of them. He says they can’t get enough of each other. My comments are in (bold parenthesis like this below) in the body of his email:
Hi Coach,I realize you must get tons of emails, but I hope you will have the time to read this heartfelt letter of appreciation. (I always appreciate good success stories.) I am 25, and have never had any luck with the ladies, only having kissed one girl when I was 16 and we were both very drunk, until I stumbled upon your YouTube channel amidst my search for help. I then bought and read your book a few times, watched more videos, and was ready to put what you teach into practice. Of course, it worked! (I always say, even if you think I’m full of shit, just apply the things I teach, and you’ll see it works for you.) Anyway, the first girl I met didn’t work out in the end, as she wasn’t genuinely interested, but I kissed her like no one before! (It’s still a win. Good for you.) The second girl I met earlier this year is simply awesome. I was so worried and apprehensive about going all the way, as I still had my “V” plates, so to speak, and zero experience with anything, but I just went for it, as your work had given me so much confidence to do so. (If you’re full of fear, you can take my book, learn from my mistakes and get the benefit of all of that knowledge, without having to go through it.) She was completely understanding and just great about the whole thing. She is the girl I have been waiting for this whole time, while my friends were having multiple relationships, and I was sitting on the sidelines hindered by my lack of confidence. We just can’t get enough of each other, and she literally jumps on me when she sees me! (I would say that qualifies as a high level of attraction dude. This girl is really into you.) I don’t know how long it will last, but I’m just enjoying it while it does. (That tells me you are completely living in the moment, and that’s where the juice is. It’s your birthright to be like this.)
I can’t thank you enough. You have been my lifeline while I was drowning in a sea of self-pity and despair, which may be a bit dramatic, but hey! I will, of course, continue to re-read the book and keep watching your videos! (If you stay with this girl long term, you’re going to need the relationship portion of my book so you don’t fumble the football. Read the book 10-15 times so you know the material so well, you’re prepared down the road.)
All the very best Corey, and keep up the amazing work!
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“Being successful is a direct result of taking action towards the things you want in life. If you keep doing what you have always done, you will continue to get what you’ve always got. Since most people are run by their fears, instead of using their fears as motivators, they close themselves off from doing anything different, and therefore never come close to reaching their full potential. Successful people realize when their approach is flawed or not working, and simply seek to acquire new knowledge, techniques, skills and strategies from those who are already getting the results that they want. They apply what they learn and eventually get the same results. When you realize your efforts are not getting you what you really want, model what other successful people are doing that you are not, apply it, and you’ll get the same results. Don’t try to reinvent the wheel when you are surrounded by a sea of other successful people you can model.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne
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