Why you should never bullshit yourself and think that being “friends first” with a woman who you are sexually attracted to will ever lead to romance, a relationship or sex.
Why waiting on her to make up her mind, break up with her boyfriend or choose you over another man will only lead to frustration, blue balls and rejection once you finally get up the nerve to make a move or vomit your “feelings” all over her. Why being direct and getting to the point establishes your high value in her eyes and walking away when you find out she’s unavailable will often lead to her chasing and pursuing you in the future if she’s currently taken.
In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a viewer who decided he would be “friends first” with a woman who approached him first, but had a boyfriend. He figured he would be her male girlfriend and hoped that later she would choose him over her boyfriend so he’s spent months hanging out with her, but she can’t make up her mind.
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