Why Girls From Broken Homes Make Terrible Girlfriends

Why girls from broken homes are usually terrible girlfriends you should avoid.

In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a viewer who recently got out of a 3 year relationship with a liar and a cheater. She came from a broken home. Their peer group consisted of hippies, lefties and anarchists who also came from broken homes and had no sense of loyalty or honor. He ignored the red flags and paid the price. My comments are in bold italics like this below in the body of his email.

Hi, I’m Coach Corey Wayne and this is my Video Coaching Newsletter. And the topic of today’s Newsletter is going to be, “Why Girls From Broken Homes Make Terrible Girlfriends”.

Not always, but most of the time. Especially having done this for 20 years. When I’ve got guys that are writing in with that, they’re following what’s in the book and they’re having some difficulty, 99% of the time it’s a chick that comes from a broken home. Dad did a really terrible job of raising her. So she has no sense of honor, no sense of loyalty. She may be hot, but if you guys ever seen the Hot and Crazy Matrix video, that’s I mean, it’s pretty accurate.

So this particular email, this guy just got out of a three year relationship, and I guess he was in the middle of the relationship when he came across my work. But the girl he was dating, all the people they hung out with were like hippies, leftie anarchists and all the women have tons of male orbiters. This is probably like groups of dudes that, you know, they say they’re male feminists, that kind of thing, hoping that they’re going to be able to slide in there.

So he recently ended this relationship because she tells him, “oh, I fell in love with somebody else.” So she clearly lined up another guy while they were together. And so it’s just more evidence that just shows when you come across a girl like this, you just gotta exercise self control. You cannot get carried away on how beautiful she is or how much you like her. You’ve gotta look at her actions.

And it’s also important to investigate, what’s her family life like. One of the best questions to determine whether girls like is, “what’s your relationship with your Father? Are you close? Are you guys close? Are you and your Dad close? Do you love your Dad?” And when you hear, “oh, my Father’s a narcissist. I hate his guts. I never talk to him.” That should usually be a red flag.

Viewer Email:

Dear Corey,

Thanks again for your work. It changed my life. I am reading Mastering Yourself for the second time now. I am getting chiropractic care, drinking green smoothies daily and soon will do a colon hydrotherapy.

So he’s taken care of his body seriously. And so all the stuff that I talk about in Mastering Yourself with the Green Juice and the Smoothies, the different nuts and things that I do to stay healthy, a lot of guys are always going, “Coach, you look so young.” Man. I’ll tell you what, the Green Juice makes a difference. Helps keep your body cleansed and properly detoxified. Plus, it gives vital nutrients and minerals. And nothing makes you feel better in a nice fresh glass of Green Juice or Green Smoothie. I actually had a Green Smoothie after I ran two miles this morning. My nasal passages opened up. Obviously you don’t have any cat hair, but man, what a difference it makes.

But it’s the kind of thing I could talk about till I’m blue in the face. It’s, you know, people here it and it mostly goes in one ear and out the other. But the ones that actually have the guts to try it, it’s a paradigm shift. Especially if you had all the kind of health problems like I used to have as a kid, I was constantly getting sick, constantly getting colds, constantly getting the flu. I’d get rid of the flu and then it would come back two weeks later. Not as bad, but it’s just, oh man, the winters were always awful. I was always getting sick. And that was my life for almost 30 years of it, until I figured out how the food you put in your body, how it affects you and your health.

I have been reading 3% Man back to back now since the past year. I am also reading a lot of other books so I don’t finish 3% Man every 4 hours, but must have read it more than 10 times now. I am going out of my comfort zone talking to girls and asking for their numbers, and I fucking love it. My confidence is growing steady like a tree.

Well, what is confidence? Confidence is doing what you know how to do and doing it really well. Repetition is the mother of skill. Excellence is not a singular act. It’s a habit. You are what you do repeatedly. Everybody starts out as a novice, so at one point it scared the hell out of him to talk to girls face to face out in public. But the more he does it, the more his confidence grows because he’s rehearsing it over and over and over and over again. And then it just becomes like eventually ordering a Happy Meal at McDonald’s. And it makes you happy.

I recently came out of a 3 year relationship. I broke up with her the day after I caught her hanging with a male friend, while she said she was going to a girl friends birthday party, who is the sister of the guy she was hanging with.

Oh how convenient. That’s really nice.

Before that she came back from a trip and told me she had fallen in love with a guy there but told him she didn’t want to do anything with it because she was in a relationship with me.

Sure, sure, sure. Totally believable. Just kind of happened. So again, women from broken homes are just gonna continually hang out and have lots of dudes around them that, “oh, they’re just friends”, who clearly are male orbiters that are trying to get their shot. But again, a girl doesn’t have a Father, is not raised right, comes from a broken home, or hates her Dad. She didn’t get the attention from men that she wanted when she was a little girl. So they often make Frankenstein Boyfriend Projects.

And even though you’re her boyfriend, there’s lots of other dudes that give them attention and validation in a dysfunctional way. And if you call them out on it, they say you’re being insecure and controlling. When in reality they just want to be able to basically date and sleep with whoever they want. Because often that’s what was modeled for them at home. So what you do often you do best what you observe, you participate in. You are who you associate with.

Well, she is seeing him again now, and told me she is in love with him again.

That doesn’t happen overnight. She lined that up over many months. So when she insists she’s just hanging out with friends there’s other dudes that are trying to get into her pants, and she’s just going with whatever makes her feels good or better. Loyalty doesn’t mean anything. Loyalty wasn’t modeled for growing up. How is she gonna even value something like that? She never saw it. She didn’t experience it.

I ignored red flags of her because I didn’t understand your material well enough and because I was hanging with hippies, and anarchist lefties.

Well, you become like the five people you most associate with.

Where hanging with guy friends is very normal for girls in relationships.

Because again, they all come from broken homes. So they didn’t come from strong families where you maintain healthy boundaries. It’s just like a hippie free for all. Free love man. Commitments don’t mean anything. And what’s interesting about this there’s a quote Roger Simon said he’s a conservative person in the media. And he said, “modern liberalism is based upon lying. And it begins with lying to the self.” And you see that a lot.

Especially people on the left are going absolutely apeshit at what Bobby Kennedy is doing and firing a lot of these ideologues, these liars, not testing things, just ramming it down people’s throat. And then the people on the left are going absolutely berserk over it, like it’s the end of the world. It’s like they want the government to be their mommy. Their government really is Jesus to them, because they’re often atheists.

I now see much more clearly the patterns of the parents and how this affects the children. Most people in these groups are pretty fucked up, and I grew out of it. My ex-girlfriend would lie, love bomb etc. And I ignored it all, but since reading your material so much now things are clicking. I am happy I broke up with her, it hurts now since she told me that she is in love with the guy from the trip and he loves her back.

Oh, they deserve each other, but eventually she’ll cheat on him too, so it really doesn’t matter. So he’ll get his karma, and she’ll never get a guy that’s gonna really ever commit to her. Just imagine what she’ll look like when she’s in her 40s. She’s gonna look like she came right out of a trailer park. Living in a trailer park with a bunch of crackheads is what it’ll look like.

Rejection breeds obsession. But that feeling will pass. She is not my ideal woman anyway. Dear readers, read the book until you know it backwards and forwards and equally important, practice. Do what Corey says, and results are guaranteed.

Well, the most important thing is you got to vet the people you’re with. Character is destiny. That shit matters. How they were raised, it matters. And you got to pay attention to these things. If you’re used to dating family oriented girls, they come from family oriented families where they stay together. The father is a man. He provides stability. He keeps everybody in check, instills a sense and a code of honor in his children, doing the right things, right from wrong. That kind of thing. But when you date girls that come from broken homes, they tend to lean towards leftism, if you will, because that facilitates lying and dishonesty.

Even though they claim to care about everybody, they’re just pretty ruthless. I mean, all you’ve got to do is any society that tried Communism, Socialism, Marxism, Collectivism, it always ends in guns being taken away and just people getting slaughtered by the government at will. And then you end up with a Mafia elite you can’t get rid of. You look at Venezuela, look at Russia. It’s like they’re never going to get rid of that. You’re never going to get rid of these criminals that run the government there.

I mean, the United States, we’ve got a lot of criminals, but at least we have the potential to get rid of people. I mean, Donald Trump got reelected. Nobody thought that was going to be possible. So if the system was truly, totally, 100% rigged, there was no way he would have ever won and we would have ended up with Kamala and God, what a shit show that would have been. Kamala and Biden again. God, what a nightmare.

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