Why My Breakup Happened

How to self-diagnose and figure out why your breakup happened, learn important lessons from your breakup, and how you can change your approach going forward so the same thing never happens again.

In this video coaching newsletter, I discuss an email from a viewer who shares how studying my book, website articles and YouTube videos have helped him to recover from his breakup. He initially found me after his breakup happened, and he was trying to understand what the hell happened. He has read my book going on three times now.

He talks about how he has become focused on becoming a better version of himself, not only in his personal life, but his work life as well. He shares his gratitude and his new attitude that he has towards life and preparing himself for whatever comes next. My comments are in (bold parenthesis like this below) in the body of his email.

Hi Coach,

We’ve never spoken before. However, I just wanted to drop you a quick email to say thank you for everything that you do for people and for the great support and advice you give to them on a daily basis, including me. I came across your videos on YouTube back in March of this year, shortly after my then-girlfriend and I had parted ways. I guess, like most people coming out of a relationship, I was trying to work out what had happened, and I was looking for answers. (I can’t count the number of guys I’ve talked to over the years who were dumped and didn’t see it coming. If you’re not being the man you are capable of being, your relationship will end. The pain from your breakup is life’s change agent. You were seeking information to fill your knowledge gap and self diagnose, so you could figure out why the relationship ended.) When I found you, I found those answers. Since then, I have been watching your videos on a daily basis, even if it was something that wasn’t personally related to me or something I have ever personally been through. (The idea is to prepare yourself with all of the scenarios I discuss and to understand the principles from my book. It will help you improve your quality and also the quality of the people you attract in your life.) I just find them really interesting to watch and to hear the advice and support you give to people in different circumstances.

I am currently reading your book for the third time as I write this email, and I am working hard to become a better version of myself, not just in my relationships, but also in my working life and basically preparing myself for whatever comes next. (That’s a great way to look at it.) Since my breakup, you have really helped me in so many different ways, and words cannot describe just how grateful I am to you and your work.

Thank You for everything Coach, and keep up the great work. (Thanks for applying this stuff. Not only will you make your life better, but everybody you interact with going forward. You have the potential to change their lives as well.)

Kind Regards,

Bob

“Pain is life’s way of getting our attention and placing it on what matters most to our soul’s journey. When you live your life in harmony and balance with your life’s mission, work and purpose, things tend to flow and unfold in easy and effortless ways. When you or your life becomes out of balance with your life’s mission, work and purpose, life tends to become more difficult and full of dis-ease, challenges, struggle and hardship. The more aligned your life is with your heart, the more fun, fulfillment and enjoyment you will experience. Living from your heart enhances life, ignoring your heart takes it from you.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne

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