Why women can go from wanting to see you all the time, being afraid to screw things up with you, to treating you like a second class citizen to the point that they never seem to be able to make the time to see you. What you can do to turn things around when a woman has slowly disappeared from your life so she becomes interested in you and starts pursuing you again.
In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a viewer who started seeing a woman he liked. He did not let her come to him at her own pace and literally chased her right out of his life with his over-pursuing needy behavior. She is consistently blowing him off because she has a low attraction level for him.
He wonders if there is some kind of text or message he can send to her that will cause her to start liking and wanting him again. She was really into him at first and now she could not be less interested. When they first started dating she even told him that she really liked him and was worried about screwing things up with him.
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“Women will respond to men based upon their actions and words. If a man acts worthy, masculine, like a leader and like a charming chivalrous James Bond, she will feel comfortable opening up to receive him, letting him be the leader of their love story and develop a strong desire and emotions for him. However, if he starts to act unworthy by doubting what he brings to her life, doubting that she will love him, fearing he will lose her, becoming controlling, jealous or possessive, or he simply starts to act like a woman by trying to make her the leader of the love story, she will lose attraction, desire and interest in him romantically. The more a man acts like a woman, the more he will force his woman to act like a man and move into her masculine essence. This is not her natural essence. She will resent it and get turned off rather quickly. The sexual polarity of masculine and feminine energy is what creates the sexual attraction in the first place. This is true in gay and lesbian relationships as well.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne