Why You Should Date Women With A Good Attitude

The importance of dating women who are flexible & have a good attitude.

In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email success story from a 25 year old viewer from Poland who has been following my work for 3 years. He shares how he attracted his current girlfriend and how easy going and easy to get along with she is and how scary accurate and effective 3% Man is. My comments are in bold italics like this below in the body of his email.

Hi, I’m Coach Corey Wayne, and this is my Video Coaching Newsletter. And the topic of today’s Newsletter is going to be, “Why You Should Date Women With A Good Attitude.”

Well, this is a email success story from a 25 year old engineer from Poland. He’s been following me for three years, read 3% Man ten times so far. And so he shares about how he ended up with his current girlfriend, and how it goes well. And also the importance, because he learned this the hard way. And I say this all the time, why you should date somebody who’s easygoing, easy to get along with, and who’s nice to you. Somebody who communicates like an adult.

Viewer Email:

Dear Corey,

I’m a 25-year-old AI engineer from Poland. I’ve been following your work for 3 years now, read 3% Man 10 times, and listen to your podcast regularly. Let me tell you – it is honestly scary how well your teachings work.

Well, I say it all the time. Even if you think I’m full of shit, if you read what’s in 3% Man and apply it, you’re going to get way better results than if you’re new here. You can read 3% Man at UnderstandingRelationships.com. Just subscribe to the email newsletter as soon as you get there and it will open up right in your web browser. And then once you see that what I teach works, then go buy yourself an Audiobook or a paperback, or a hardcover of it, or a digital copy.

If you’ve met me as a teenager, you would have never imagined me with the girlfriend that I’m with now. My anchor was always the list of 10 qualities that you absolutely must have, and 10 that you absolutely need to avoid that you’ve told us to make in your book. Since embarking on a 3% journey, I’ve met 2 stunning angels who satisfied every criterion. One was a 35-year-old yoga instructor, who definitely doesn’t look her age. I approached her at a coworking space. From the first moment the conversation was flowing seamlessly, and we started having a date right on the spot.

So as I discussed in The Book, he made an instant date. The Book gives you the option to make an instant date, to get the number and later call to make a date. Because, you know, maybe sometime you’re traveling and you’re only there for a few days or a weekend or a week, you’re not going to get her number and call her a few days later. You can make a date on the spot. If a girl is really into you, that’s what he did here.

She made me tea and we shared cookies. I never hesitated to go for what I want – and she reciprocated. Everything was effortless. Shortly after we started having sex, she told me that she wants to be in a long-term relationship with me. Unfortunately, I was in a different place at that time – physically and emotionally – and our age difference made it even harder. I ended things to not hurt her, but she understood and we both moved on and stayed on good terms.

Well, when you really love somebody, you want them to be happy, even if it’s not with you. And so it’s a good thing to end a relationship with love, because it’s nice when you have your exes think very highly of you. Especially when they come on your podcast and say nice things, 18, almost 20 years after you were last together.

The second woman is my current girlfriend, a 24-year-old physiotherapist and personal trainer from my home town that I’ve met on Tinder.

I said Twinder thinking Twitter and Tinder. Tinder.

Again, easy-going, easy to get along with.

This is essential. Life is hard enough. You don’t need a chick that’s just unnecessarily making your life difficult. You want a woman that makes your life hard. (lol). In other words, you want a woman that makes your dick hard, not your life. And there’s too many women in this world that will make your life hell and neglect the general.

Great body, caring, nurturing, affectionate. Full package. I’m taking her for a trip to Vietnam and Qatar soon. Life is beautiful.

Lastly, I have 2 pieces of advice to your listeners:

1. Remember Corey’s words from one of his podcasts: “You want a woman with a good fuckin’ attitude”. Remember it, because if you forget it, your life will turn into living hell.

Well, remember you’ve got to choose very carefully who you choose to spend your life with. Because 95% of your happiness or your misery is going to come from that one decision. And we all tend to project our fantasy onto the person we’re with, and we ignore the fact that the reality doesn’t match.

2. Corey’s advice is all intentional. He didn’t write it to fill the space of his book.

That’s true. It’s only about 240 pages. I put examples in here that pretty much every guy has had happen and what I learned from them all. And as I connected the dots. Because every guy has experienced many of the things that I write in my book, but not experienced everything together and connected all the dots. And so that’s what it does. It’s meant through my life and my examples, my failures, my successes. So you can see what the right, correct path is to go towards.

He actually thought through all of it. Unless you can come up with something verifiably better, follow it religiously.

Well, when guys stray from The Book, they have problems. When the guys stick to it pretty closely, things are easy and effortless. Because I’ve been doing this for about 20 years, when I run into guys that are having problems in their long term relationship, especially if they’ve followed me many years ago, what happens is, they’ll apply The Book, they’ll follow it religiously, they’ll learn it, they get married, they settle down, they move in with their wife/girlfriend, they start a family.

Eight, ten years later, they hadn’t been back to The Book in eight and ten years. And they fought. Then what happens is they start having big problems, and they go back to The Book and they read it again. And it’s been many years since they went through it, and they’re shocked at how far away from The Book they’ve gotten. The other thing that you have to keep in mind is what I’ve said earlier. Whatever you observe, you participate in. So if you stop consuming The Book, what I recommend is, initially 10 to 15 times.

And most importantly, you’ve got to practice it. But after that, at least once or twice a year you should go through The Book just to keep it fresh in your mind. Because if you’re constantly consuming traditional news and movies and TV shows, you’re getting brainwashed and emotionally anchored to dysfunctional archetypes. In other words, you’re learning behavior and becoming emotionally anchored to behavior that is opposite of what is innate in all of us. And so it happens very slowly over many years.

And so by going through The Book at least once or twice a year, maybe every six months, you put the Audiobook on 2X, and follow along with a digital or physical copy just to keep it fresh. Because if you don’t go through it and you stop watching videos and years go by, you’ll backslide and you won’t even realize it, because it happens very slow. I mean, if you think about it, you’re constantly watching TV and movies and entertaining yourself with what’s in the culture. You’re brainwashing yourself to be unattractive, in essence, to basically act the opposite of what’s masculine and to act more effeminate and girly, which is going to turn women off.

I did do some tweaks here and there, as I don’t think the advice applies perfectly to every culture, I am from Eastern Europe, but not before fully engaging with the material, and seeing how effective it is.

Thank you for changing my life, you’ve been one of the most impactful authors I’ve read.

Best,

Bob

Well, again, even if you think I’m full of shit, if you apply what’s in The Book, it will work better for you than the results that you’re currently getting. Plus it’s free. You can read it for free and see that it works yourself.

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