Why men need to be patient and not overly eager to kiss, touch, have sex, text, call or interact with women they want. Why being patient, hanging back and observing a woman’s actions before making a move will get better results, than acting like a bull in a china shop or a horny teenager trying to lose his virginity.
In this video coaching newsletter I discuss three emails from three different viewers. The first email is from a viewer who has recently hung out with his ex at his place twice, but once he started taking off her bra while they were making out, she stopped him. He has been unable to seduce her successfully since she started calling him and hanging out with him again. He has a third date set up with her in a few days and he wants to know what to do differently so he can seduce her successfully. The interesting thing is that she told him she already has plans for valentines day with another guy she is seeing. She might just be keeping him in backup position because she is actually sleeping with the other guy. The second email is from a viewer who has been dating and hooking up with a woman for a month and a half. She’s very flakey and never shows up on time. She never will stay over and tells him that she can’t tell him the reason why. Something seems fishy with her situation. He has not heard from her in about a week since her last text when he tried to set the next date. The third email is from a viewer who did a great job picking up a girl in the bar where he works and having a good first date. Things were getting very hot and heavy with her, but he ended the date instead of inviting her to come back to his place for a glass of champagne. He then preceded to over text and over pursue her to the point that he started apologizing to her for kissing her on their first date. Needless to say, he has not made a second date with her because it looks like he might have talked her right out of liking him with his needy nice guy behavior.
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“Every woman has encountered numerous overly eager, quick to anger, needy and desperate men in their dating lives. These kind of men turn into stalkers, control freaks and abusive boyfriends. Therefore, most women have learned to make a guy wait, test him, wait to call/text him back, make him wait for sex, etc., in order to screen out the freaks and protect themselves emotionally, mentally and physically. Content, happy and patient men are men who treat women with respect, appreciation, honesty, love and are not bothered by these tests of their strength. Why? Because these men have options too, and they want, deserve and get the best for themselves. If you let women do most of the initiating of calling, texting, pursuing and touching so you can then reciprocate slowly, they will give you the keys to their kingdom, tear your clothes off and never leave you.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne