Why you deserve the best you can get and what it takes to become the type of person you need to be in order to attract the perfect person for you. A person who has similar goals, values, standards and who challenges and encourages you to be your very best so you can have an effortless relationship, and a spectacular life and lifestyle.
In this video coaching newsletter I discuss three emails from three different viewers. The first email is from a viewer who has been dating a married woman for a little over a year who is separated from her husband and lives on her own, but yet she still goes on family vacations with her kids and husband. The odd thing is that she never invites him to come along with her on these trips as her boyfriend.
The second email is from a viewer who got dumped by his girlfriend and has been trying a “text your ex back” type of program with little to no success. He’s still chasing her and getting treated like a second class citizen. The third email is from a viewer who has been dating a woman over three years and has a kid with her. She has blown him off numerous times to date other guys and then when it does not work out she comes back to him. All three of these guys are involved with women who are not what they really want.
“Most people in life tend to settle for the first person who comes along and they also tend to major in minor things in life. Getting to a place where you have a great career or successful business, an outstanding relationship, are financially secure and you have the freedom to spend your life in your own way, is a long process that can take many years or even decades to accomplish. You deserve to have everything you want in life and you deserve the very best, but not everything you want comes all at once. It’s a slow process that requires failure, learning from your mistakes, experiencing pain, rejection and sorrow along the way. Since human beings tend to do more to avoid pain than to gain pleasure, most people are simply unwilling or too fearful to pay the price in time and effort to get what they want. Sure, you can find someone to have a relationship with and find an average good paying job, but in order to create a truly spectacular life, it requires an inner patience and strong internal constitution that most people simply do not have, or refuse to believe in because their self doubt is greater than their desires. When you are surrounded by people who settle for mediocrity in every area of their lives, and they try to get you to do the same so they feel better about themselves and their choices, staying committed to what you want requires that you have really strong and emotionally compelling reasons for why you want what you want. Otherwise, you’ll simply give up and follow the rest of the herd instead of being a leader and creating a spectacular life for yourself.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne