Why it’s a bad idea to suggest to your woman when you are having problems that she break up with you, or asking her if she wants to break up with you.
In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a viewer who was having problems with his girlfriend of several years. Things had been rocky for a while and she mentioned to him she was thinking about breaking up with him once again. He sent her an email later that evening saying that they could work things out and get through their troubles together.
The next day they met and he did not act like the confident guy he had portrayed himself to be in his email the night before. Instead of letting her talk and find out what was really on her mind by communicating effectively, he asked if she wanted to break up with him. Not a good idea.
“You get what you focus on in life. What you focus on will expand. If you are focusing on what you are fearful about or what you fear may not work out for you in the future, your actions will bring about what you fear. If you see the positive in every experience and always look for the gift and silver lining in everything that happens to you, you will take more efficient actions that will eventually manifest what you really want. Where intention goes, energy flows. When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at, focus on and experience in life will change. Don’t focus on what’s not working. Instead focus on what you want to create and what actions you must take RIGHT NOW to manifest your desires and dreams.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne