What you can do and say to give yourself the best possible chance to get a woman to go from blowing you off and saying you have no chemistry, to chasing you, sleeping with you and saying things like, “I never do this kind of thing with anyone,” “You’re a mystery and that’s very sexy,” “There’s just something about you,” etc.
In this video coaching newsletter, I discuss an email from a viewer who shares a success story about a woman he recently got a second chance with after she blew him off and said they had no chemistry. They met through an online dating site. The next day when she reached out and told him they had no chemistry, he deleted her number and was content to never speak to her again.
He shares what he said to her when they last spoke and what he said that led to her hanging out, having fun and hooking up with him three weeks later, when she reached out to ask if he was still single. He also talks about how his dating life is full and abundant since he started applying what my book teaches. He says he has read my book five times so far. My comments are in (bold parenthesis like this below) in the body of his email.
I just wanted to take some time to really thank you for making my life easy. I have been following you for 3 months and have read the book 5 times, which is almost 50% through. I am doing great in the ladies department now since I came across your material. Here is my story…
I met this girl for a date through a dating website, and I got a reply from her the next day that she didn’t feel the chemistry. (If you keep pursuing, it will get you nowhere.) I replied back saying that is fine, she can always reach out if anything changes, and I deleted her contact info and never texted her again. (If you’ve just been rejected, it’s important to walk away instead of pursuing. That is approval seeking behavior, and you should have more self respect than that.) After 3 weeks, I got a random text from this girl asking if I am still single, and if so, she would like to meet me, (Most of the time women will not come right out and ask to get together, but this is one of those rare occasions), to which I replied, “Well honey, there is strict no kiss and tell policy,” and “I would love to see you.” Then I made a definite date, which turned out to be awesome. (Of course you did, because you were prepared. You read enough of my book and saw enough of my videos to fill your knowledge gap and turn things around. However, if things progress with this woman into a relationship, then you need those other 5-10 times of reading the book, so it becomes instinctual.) I was talking to other girls as well. I kept the conversation to the point and made a definite date, which started with making out and ended with sex. (Good job dude. This is your birthright. This is the way it is supposed to be.) She kept telling me, “I never make out with anyone like this, but there is something about you. I just can’t stop myself. You are a mystery, and that’s very sexy.” (More than likely, you’re probably the first and only guy that has ever done that. If she’s hot and has choices, she’s used to blowing guys off. Remember, it’s a scientific fact that women are more attracted to men whose feelings are unclear.)Had I been the guy I was before, I would have had no chance with these girls. Some of them are classy and very attractive. In the past, girls would always tell me I am good looking, but blow me off later. (Having good looks will get your foot in the door, but if you don’t know what you’re doing, that door will slam and cut your foot off.) I am also seeing other girls, and it’s amazing. They always text and want to see me, be it a week or 2 weeks after the first date, with me not chasing even a bit. I am overloaded with the number people I am scheduled to meet over weekends. (When you get to the point where you have five or six women you’ve been hooking up with, what’s your motivation to text anybody? There is no motivation. These women are getting bombarded by texts from other guys, and you’re the mystery, so you’re the one they chase.)
I would love to have you discuss this on your newsletter, just please don’t mention my name. Who knows, one of them might be following your work too! (At the end of the day, so what. You’ve got so many women, you don’t have to call any of them back. It’s all about having a life and lifestyle that’s of your choosing. It’s about creating and experiencing what you want. You have multiple options, so you’re not under pressure to be exclusive with anybody. Take your time, and when it feels right, you’ll know it. The more you do this, the better you’ll get at it, the better quality choices you’ll make, and the quality of women will get better.)
Thanks again Coach,
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“Women are naturally and more emotionally attracted to men who are mysterious, indifferent and who have a dangerous kind of masculinity vibe. The, “I don’t give a fuck what you think about me,” or “I don’t give a fuck if you like me or not,” unattached, free spirit, take it or leave it vibe. When a woman is given a choice between the typical nice guy pleaser, who would do anything for her, versus the guy with edgy charisma, who marches to the beat of his own drum, 99% of the time she will choose the latter, even if he is a little bit of a bad boy. One of the most powerful aphrodisiacs to create sexual attraction and an attitude adjustment in an unappreciative woman is to walk away and never look back when a woman is unwilling to give you what you want.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne
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