Girls Just Want To Have Fun!!!!!

Love is fun and playful. It’s not serious. One of the biggest mistakes men make with women they want to attract, is they get all serious when they meet a girl they like. They try to do too much too soon. Men get in their heads and get lost in the details of what could be, instead of living in the moment and just having fun.

Girls just want to have fun. They want to act dorky and silly and stupid when they feel like it, and also be serious and focused when it comes to working or taking care of things that need to be taken care of. They want to play and have fun when their work is done. Feminine energy is about opening up and receiving love. A woman will never open up to receive you or your love if your only focus is putting some kind of label on what the two of you may or may not mean to each other.

Women want to be in a love story. A love story just kind of happens. Nothing is more enticing or exciting romantically to a woman, than the thought of running into some random handsome stranger where they both have a deep mutual physical attraction and connection to one another. She wants to get lost in his eyes, their mutual attraction, their chemistry and simply let the love happen between the two of them. To get caught up in the moment of their connection and simply let things happen between them naturally. Men must learn to be patient and not try to force things. The more she touches you, the more you slowly reciprocate. The less she touches you, the more you need to back off. Relax, she’ll start touching you again in a few moments.

Women are like cats. You must give them the space to dance into and out of your world as they please. If you let the cat come and go as it pleases, the cat will do more and more to get your attention. She may touch your arm. She may ask you questions about yourself, and who you are which communicates that she likes you and is interested in who you are as a man. She may tell you that she likes the way you are dressed and other compliments that communicate she is interested. The more comfortable she feels, the more she will start touching you, bumping up next to you or standing “too close” as you chat. All you have to do is simply… slowly… reciprocate her touching and affection making sure to stop when you notice that she has stopped. Be patient, because in a few minutes… she’ll be back. But if you chase, she will run away and you will blow your chances as she judges you to not be worthy because you’re acting like you are not worthy when you chase a woman. When you chase a woman more than she chases you, your actions communicate that you are not very successful with women and do not understand the mating dance… and… that girls just want to have fun!

When a woman judges you to be weak, unworthy or not deserving of her opening up to you so you can take her and have your way with her, she simply moves on to the next fun interaction with a new guy in hopes that the next guy will prove himself to be worthy. When you are on a date or are meeting a woman for the first time, always remember that a man’s job in the courtship is to create a fun-filled romantic opportunity for sex to happen. Men should forget about the subjects of boyfriend/girlfriend, relationships, going steady, getting serious, moving in together, marriage, commitment or any other topic related to becoming exclusive. Why? Women are going to do what they want, when they want and with who they want. If she is ready to make you her boyfriend because you have demonstrated you are a catch through your actions and not your words, she will bring it up. Therefore, if she does not bring it up, then it is not yet important to her. If you do everything right with a woman that I talk about in my book, she will fall in love with you. The more a woman loves you and desires you, the more of you and your time she will want. Eventually, she will take most of it. If you do everything right, she will make you her boyfriend and you really won’t have a choice about it. Exclusivity is a woman’s choice to make. It’s your choice as a man to say yes to her. Give her the space and she will make you say… YES!!!

Here’s Cyndi Lauper’s video “Girls Just Want To Have Fun” from the 1980’s… nothings changed with women gentlemen. They still want the same thing. Give them what they want, and they will give you everything you want:

Here’s the lyrics to her song:

I come home in the morning light
My mother says when you gonna live your life right
Oh mother dear we’re not the fortunate ones
And girls they want to have fun
Oh girls just want to have fun

 

The phone rings in the middle of the night
My father yells what you gonna do with your life
Oh daddy dear you know you’re still number one
But girls they want to have fun
Oh girls just want to have

That’s all they really want
Some fun
When the working day is done
Girls – they want to have fun
Oh girls just want to have fun

Some boys take a beautiful girl
And hide her away from the rest of the world
I want to be the one to walk in the sun
Oh girls they want to have fun
Oh girls just want to have

That’s all they really want
Some fun
When the working day is done
Girls – they want to have fun
Oh girls just want to have fun,
They want to have fun,
They want to have fun

“Keep on asking, & you will be given what you ask for. Keep on looking & you will find. Keep on knocking & the door will be opened”-Luke 11:9.