How To Get Your Woman To Follow You Anywhere

How to get your woman to follow you anywhere you want to live & work.

In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email success story update from a viewer in Argentina who met his Brazilian girlfriend last December. She loves warm weather and the ocean 365. Where he lives it’s sunny half the year and cold the rest. She’s talking about moving and starting a family with him in Argentina.

He’s worried about her fully letting go of where she wanted to live in order to be with him. My comments are in bold italics like this below in the body of his email.

So I’ve actually got a success story update. This story started back in December of last year, 2025.

This particular guy, I did a video newsletter about it. He had just met this woman, he’s from Argentina and she’s from Brazil. She loves the weather 365 days. So I assume she’s probably northern Brazil, where it’s always warm and she’s close to the ocean. Where he lives in Argentina half the year, it’s nice. The other half it’s cold. So she really wants to live in Brazil, but things have been going so well. They’ve been doing long distance. He goes to see her. She comes to see him. She’s talking about moving to Argentina to be with him, talking about having kids already. Also talked about moving around potentially, clearly because he’s doing a really good job of being in his masculine, making her feel safe to the point where she’s comfortable letting him lead. In other words, this is what happens when a woman submits to you fully. She will follow you anywhere because she doesn’t want to be away from you for too long, because you can’t keep her hands off of you.

So when you get a woman to this point, she’s stuck to you like a sucker-fish, makes things really easy. On top of that, the wrinkle that he’s got is that they’re long distance, but I think he said she’s in Brazil with him right now. So let’s see what is the latest update because he just writes in telling us what’s going on and they’re moving that direction. He wants to make sure she completely falls through because she was really wrapped up in her fantasy of living in Brazil, being close to the ocean and all that stuff, but emotions override logic. This is why you see women breaking dudes out of prison that throw their whole lives away for a criminal. Basically, you’re like, “How could somebody rational thinking do that?” There’s no rational thinking. It’s all pure emotions.

Women want to be in a love story, and this guy’s doing a great job of creating a love story, even though on top of things, the challenge he’s got is that they’re long distance. So he’s doing a good job. He’s been a good student because he was asking about long distance and he’s implemented what I suggested. So we’re six or seven months down the road now.

Viewer Email:

Dear Coach Corey Wayne,

I hope this message finds you well. God bless you and your journey, Coach.

This is an official update. A success story within the success story, plus a request for your expert guidance on the next level.

Long story short: I went to Brazil, and right now, Jessica is here with me in Argentina testing out our daily routine (attached are some photos).

She’s a very pretty lady.

Everything is going better than expected. In fact, she is already bringing up the big topics: First a potential relocation, then wedding dates, and even timelines for when we should start trying for our first child.

You see how women are? It’s like they’re like the fucking Borg. You will be assimilated if you act like a man consistently. A woman’s going to show up and go out of her way to assimilate you into her plans to help repopulate the Earth, along with Elon Musk and all of his baby mamas.

However, I’ve hit a crossroads regarding that potential move. I am fully dedicated to my company as a cattle and agricultural producer, which ties me directly to the land.

Well, what’s the word? Yellowstone. Can you see the Duttons giving up their land? I don’t think so. You come to my estate. The king does not vacate his castle. If the fair maiden wants to be his fair maiden, she’ll come live with him. That’s just the way it is. Women submit. You lead, she submits. If you act like a bitch, women will treat you like a bitch. In this case, obviously, he’s acting very masculine. So all of her plans go out the window because she’s overwhelmed by her emotions, her infatuation, and her visions of family, kids, and the whole nine yards and being with her man. Most importantly, because he’s what makes that all possible.

She can work remotely, but she still has a lot of “movement” left in her.

Well, you could take her on vacation.

Despite pushing for marriage and kids, she has a sharp internal contradiction and is struggling with the long-term idea of relocating to Argentina.

Well, it’s understandable, but at the end of the day, as long as you’re continuing to destroy her pussy and give her lots of great orgasms, continuing to lead, being your masculine, none of those plans fucking matter. They don’t matter. The only thing that matters is how she feels about you. That’s it. If she feels the way she’s feeling now, she ain’t gonna leave your ass alone to the point where you’re like, “Man, I’m just gonna hop my horse and go for a ride to get away from her, because she’s always all over me.”

When a woman’s in love, she wants your attention all the fucking time to the point where they really are annoying. I love women, but they can be very annoying because there are a lot of work and they need a lot of attention when you’re doing things more right than wrong. Again, they’re like the fucking Borg. Resistance is futile. Lower your shields and your biological and technological likeness will be added to our own. That’s the way they are.

I mean, think about it: It’s A Wonderful Life. If you look at that old movie. George Bailey’s like, “I’m getting out of here. I can’t wait to get out of this little town, see the world, build my empire,” and little cute, hot Donna Reed’s like, “Um, what about these? And what about this?” Oh, he stayed in that town and they lived happily ever after. That’s what happens. They got plans. They got plans for you. Just be a man who’s worthy of their planning, plotting, and scheming, and they’ll make it so good for you. You won’t be able to say no. Love is allowing, after all.

So he’s allowing this woman to love him despite her objections. At the end of the day remember, women vote with their feet. She’s with you in Argentina. What does that tell you? Well, she voted with her feet. She could talk about missing Brazil and say, “Well, we can go on many family vacations there throughout the year with our giant tribe of children that were helping to repopulate the Earth. Like Genghis Khan, maybe.”

She is a creature of the sea and tropical weather. Here, we get six months of cold and no ocean.

Well, you can hop on a plane. It’s a modern convenience.

While we align on our core vision, she is hyper-focused on what she won’t have here: 365 days of heat, the beach, a fully walkable city, and her community.

Well, that’s nice and everything, but at the end of the day, she’s going to be where her heart is. Home is where the heart is. If her heart is with you and on you, well that’s home.

I know deep down our project can win, but I need to lead masterfully to help her feel into this reality and stop weighing what is missing.

Well, that’s what women do. Feminine energy is chaos. So if her interest was low, she’d probably be staying there because she has stronger emotions to live there than live with you, but because you’re obviously a 3% Man, she’s all over you. It’s the cheat codes. It makes it really easy so you can focus on your purpose and mission. It takes all the guesswork out of women, makes them as predictable and as easy to understand as the sun coming up in the east and setting in the west. Man, you can set your watch to them!

One thing I know for certain: If I abandon my mission and move to Brazil or an eco-community (I can’t stand the hippie lifestyle), I will lose my business and lose her.

That is correct.

As you and David Deida say, “A man’s mission must come before his woman.”

Even if it means he loses the woman, he has to die to his purpose. As Elon Musk says, or when he’s really struggling, it’s so true, “Being an entrepreneur is like eating glass and staring into the abyss of death.” As a man, you have to do that every day, and all of her, “Oh, I gotta do this. I gotta do that.” As soon as she has the first baby, she’s gonna be so fucking busy. She’s not gonna care about that stuff.

I mean, look at Jade. We hardly ever see her. She’s so busy. Her little munchkin is about six, seven months old almost now. It’s at that age, he’s very time consuming. I like to tease her. It’s like, “So when are you guys gonna have the next one?” And she rolls her eyes. It’s like, “Not anytime soon.” So it’s a lot of work. So again, as soon as she has that first baby, all that other shit will go out the window. All those plans, it’s like she’ll be so busy with diapers, babies, clothes, and everything else, it’s like she won’t have time to even think about other shit. She’ll be just glad to be with you.

(P.S. Thank you for introducing me to Deida’s “The Way of the Superior Man,” together with your book, they are the Holy Bible for men. To my fellow Bobs: If you haven’t read Deida yet, do not waste another day. It is life-changing.)

Yeah, that’s why I recommend it in my book. It’s like one of those essential things along with like Tony Robbins, which his work should be like, given to every kindergartner.

Coach, I know this can work. I feel it in my gut.

Well, your feelings are your truth. Feelings are the language of the soul. As Wayne Dyer said, “When you trust in yourself, you’re trusting in the same wisdom that created you.”

I just need your guidance on how to lead the next steps perfectly to invite her fully onto my fun bus without compromising my purpose.

Dude, just keep doing what you’re doing. What you do together is what you do to keep her. So when she’s already talking about the plans in the future and everything, just keep hanging out, having fun, and hooking up with her, man. It’s pretty simple. Women want to be in a love story, so make sure the love story continues.

As Jocko Willink says, “Discipline equals freedom.” As long as you’re disciplined with the stuff that’s in the book, you will be free to be the man to reach your full potential, and she will follow you anywhere on the planet. She won’t want to be anywhere that you’re not.

Lastly, to my fellow Bobs grinding through the book without a single lead right now: Take a leap of faith. What you learn during the dark nights of the soul, those lonely days when you are sitting alone like a dog reading Wayne and Deida, will resurface as pure gold when you are dating the woman of your dreams. Do not give up, Bobs! Never.

God bless you, Coach!

The Argentinian Bob

So if you guys go back to his original email, which the girls will link in the video newsletter, he was just walking around randomly, bumped into this girl on the street. So that’s how fate works. It’s just he’s going doo, doo, doo, doo, going about his life, runs into her, makes an instant date for the next day, and on the way back to their hotel, she’s going, “Just so you know, we’re not having sex tonight.” He knew what that meant, which is, “Oh, we’re definitely having sex tonight as long as you don’t talk me out of it.” So they went back to her hotel. They had sex despite her saying it wasn’t going to happen. It’s kind of like a test, and it makes it easy for her to go, “It’s all his fault. I told him we weren’t having sex, and then he just seduced me. It’s like I couldn’t say no. It just happened. His penis ended up inside me. I just couldn’t say no.” So good job on your success story.

Again, you don’t really need to change anything. I mean, she’s already halfway there. She’s already got one foot in your plantation, your estate, if you will, your empire. So when she’s ready, she’ll be there all in. Again, your job is to create the opportunity for sex to happen. To hang out, have fun, and hook up. Keep romancing her. Keep doing the long distance things. When you’re not together, keep doing the weekly FaceTime dates. You may be doing more than one or two of those now, just because you’re six or seven months down the road, but when she’s ready, when she can’t take it anymore, she’s just going to be moving in and then she’s going to be wanting to get married. Make sure you have a nice prenuptial agreement with an attorney licensed to practice law in your country and city. Then you get married and you can have lots of Rugrats like Genghis Khan. Build your empire. She’ll just be glad to be near you. So good job, dude!

Remember, your job is to create the opportunity for sex to happen. Her job is all the other stuff, you know? Again, watch It’s a Wonderful Life. Donna Reed’s got that all planned out. The house. She wants the kids. She wants the man she wants to be with. It’s like they put that whole vision together. Love is allowing. You’re just allowing a woman who’s already predisposed to love you, to love you and assimilate you like the fucking Borg, which she’s already starting to do.

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