How weak men cause women to not feel safe in their natural feminine essence, which lowers sexual attraction, and what you can do instead to grow it.
In this video coaching newsletter, I discuss an email from a female viewer who details how my work helped her to understand men better. She explains how not understanding men created a blind spot, which led to her attracting weak men into her life that made her not feel safe being in her feminine.
She has upgraded her peer group and changed jobs after watching some of my video coaching newsletters on getting a better higher paying job that you love. She also shares how my work helped her to have a great relationship with her father. My comments are in (bold parenthesis like this below) in the body of her email.
Dear Coach Corey Wayne,
After coming across your first video about two months ago, I watched you every day all day. My job allows me to listen to whatever I want. Two weeks after finding your videos, I booked my first network chiropractic session.
(I did an article and video called “How To Become More Confident & Sure Of Your Actions” where I explain how Network Care works. It helps your body drop all of the tension in your nervous system, and this puts you in a peaceful, relaxed, resourceful state, instead of a stressed and fearful state.
If you’re nervous or fearful about the future or interacting with members of the opposite sex, remember as the great Bill Murray once said, “You’re going to do your best work when you’re relaxed.” So ideally, your life, your lifestyle, whatever you do for a living, should be set up in such a way that everything brings balance, peace and the ability to be relaxed, because you’re going to make your best decisions when you’re relaxed.
That’s what I love about Network Chiropractic care. It helps you physically feel relaxed and makes it a lot easier to do things. When you’re stuck in a stressed state, when you’re in fight or flight response, which is where most people are stuck in their lives, it’s hard to feel natural and make decisions. When you’re fearful and stressed, your actions and your decisions tend to bring about more of that. Network Chiropractic Care, or NSA as it’s also known, is one of the greatest healing modalities I’ve I incorporated it into my life.
Network Chiropractic Care was founded by Dr. Donald Epstein. You can go to his website, World Wise Seminars, to learn more about his transformational practices. Visit the World Wise Seminars – Locate A Practioner page to find a list of certified network chiropractic doctors in your area. Make sure you go to a doctor who is Level III certified for the best results. They will have an asterisk (*) next to their name on the list.)
I got your book about a month later, am in the process of reading it now, and plan to read it at least 10 times. I feel like I finally understand men for the first time. I have gotten so much clarity in so many of my relationships, romantic and otherwise.
Work-wise, I shifted to a new employer who treats me better after listening to your videos about job success.
(One of the videos I did many years ago that’s pretty popular is “How To Get Any Job You Want.”)
I’ve also become much closer to my father since I started watching you, I feel like I understand him a lot better now, and I think the network care chiropractic has really helped too.
(Yes, because when you’re in a natural, peaceful, relaxed state and the other person is in a slightly agitated state, they will actually entrain with you, because it’s more efficient to be peaceful, relaxed, loving, at a state where you’re just chilled out. Therefore, anybody around you that is in that state, you have a calming presence with them. Network Care is great because it helps deepen your relationships too.)
Now we talk every weekend and I am so thankful.
(I think that’s fucking awesome.)
Watching your videos is so satisfying, it’s like you are able to verbalize all of my feelings that I could never put into words. I am extremely feminine, and the men in my life were constantly making me feel like that wasn’t okay.
(You were hanging out with guys who were not comfortable being in their masculine, and you were connected to your natural essence. When we’re miserable and we hate our lives, and we encounter somebody who is happy and loves their life, we’re going to tend to put them down and be negative, because they’re connected to a part of themselves that we’re disconnected from ourselves. No one will ever do or say anything to you that isn’t a direct reflection of how they feel about themselves in a moment.)
Now I realize I was just letting a lot of weak men into my life. I feel like I have been able to become more of my authentic self. I am 27, successful, happy, following my passion, attractive, and have great relationships with my close friends and family. I work out 5-6 days per week and eat a very healthy diet. I feel like I now finally have the space in my life to meet someone who is actually right for me, and who deserves me.
(The best place to be is when you love being single, you love being alone, you don’t feel like you’re missing anything, you’d love to have somebody to complement that empty space, but you’re just as cool being alone. You’ve got to have a great relationship with yourself first if you want to create a great relationship with somebody else.)
Watching you, reading your book, and going to network chiropractic appointments, I go every week now, has inspired me to follow my own passion and write a book.
(Following your passion when you’re in a peaceful, relaxed state is something that’s going to come naturally and instinctively. It actually becomes extremely unpleasant and painful when you don’t.)
I have been working on it every day for about 3 weeks now, and I feel really excited every time I work on it. I formerly had debilitating PTSD and have 100% reversed it without any medication, something that I was told would be impossible, so I want to share my experience with others the way you are sharing your experiences.
(Again, Network Care is really great. I see a lot of guys and girls in the military getting Network Chiropractic adjustments, and this helps them when they come back into the country because they’re keyed up, stressed, and looking for something bad happening. When they get back into society, it’s a bit of an adjustment for most troops, and Network Care will help put them in that peaceful and relaxed state to where it’s easy and natural to slow down a little bit, relax and not be so keyed up all the time.)
It’s inspiring to listen to you. It’s nice to know that a man exists who understands how to be a real man. Whenever I have a bad date or a man does something irritating, I listen to you and just hearing you talk about the way men should treat women makes me feel so much better.
(There’s still a minority of us guys out there. That’s why the book is called “How To Be A 3% Man.” To get the best, you’ve got to be the best. You’ve got to become what you want to attract, so if you want the best, focus on becoming the best you can be, and you’ll naturally vibe with somebody that’s in the same place as you are.)
It gives me hope that I can find a real man, something I had almost given up on. Thank you for the profound impact you’ve had on my life and for what you are putting out into the world, I think it needs you. I know I do.
(I appreciate that, but at the end of the day, you must participate in your own rescue. Be your own guru. Follow what you feel in your heart is right for you. Don’t put anybody else, me included, above you when it comes to making decisions. You’ve got to trust what you feel in your heart and what’s right for you.)
P.S. If you’re ever in Denver I would love to buy you a drink, it would be an honor to meet you.
Wishing you all the best,
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“Feminine women only feel safe and comfortable around masculine men who are comfortable in their natural masculine essence. When they are around weak, feminized, placating beta males who are unsure of how to lead, they feel unsafe. This forces women to move into their masculine essence, which is not their dominant essence. This causes them to resent having to “be the man” in their relationships and leads to a loss of respect for men not being men consistently. Loss of respect results in lower attraction. A superior man must always lead, be masculine, move with a purpose and vision for one’s own life and pursue becoming all that he can be with all he’s got. This vibe embodies the essence of divine masculinity and is what feminine women are most sexually attracted to.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne
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