Why focusing on relationship closure, why you got dumped, etc. is not important, but if you make it important when trying to re-attract a woman you messed up with or got dumped by, you will almost guarantee that she will blow you off again instead of re-attracting her successfully. Why being impatient with women in any way will always decrease attraction and increase chances for rejection.
In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a viewer who found out about my work after getting unexpectedly dumped by his girlfriend of two years. He begged, pleaded and chased his girlfriend to take him back. She wouldn’t, stating she only wanted friendship. Then he found my website and walked away. Six months later after getting himself a new car, a new job and he was starting to feel happy again… guess what happened? His ex called him. He made a date and had sex with her again. They’ve been hooking up on and off for a few months, but, as his interest is going up again, he’s making mistakes that cause her to become distant. He’s also extremely impatient on relationship closure which is causing him to feel fearful and make unnecessary mistakes. I tell him how to get it right.
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“Impatience never commanded success.” ~ Edwin H. Chapin