Why Relationship Closure Is Not Important

Mar 1, 2013 by Coach Corey Wayne

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Why focusing on relationship closure, why you got dumped, etc. is not important, but if you make it important when trying to re-attract a woman you messed up with or got dumped by, you will almost guarantee that she will blow you off again instead of re-attracting her successfully. Why being impatient with women in any way will always decrease attraction and increase chances for rejection.

In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a viewer who found out about my work after getting unexpectedly dumped by his girlfriend of two years. He begged, pleaded and chased his girlfriend to take him back. She wouldn’t, stating she only wanted friendship. Then he found my website and walked away. Six months later after getting himself a new car, a new job and he was starting to feel happy again… guess what happened? His ex called him.

He made a date and had sex with her again. They’ve been hooking up on and off for a few months, but, as his interest is going up again, he’s making mistakes that cause her to become distant. He’s also extremely impatient on relationship closure which is causing him to feel fearful and make unnecessary mistakes. I tell him how to get it right.

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Published on March 1, 2013

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  1. Hey Coach! Good fucking job leading us boys (and crusty bastards) to victory in our drive towards success and satisfaction in our personal endeavors and our relationships! Please allow me to attempt to briefly share my tale for I am certain my fellow men will benefit from the telling of it. I’m 41. At 21 I didn’t trust my gut instinct and got the wrong kind of girl pregnant within two weeks, or I got cuckolded like a rookie chump. Doesn’t matter now. I love my 19 year old son. Two years ago today I split, let her keep the house, car, money, I didn’t care. I needed out. So guess what I did? 3 months later I move in with the custom woman that made me weak! I mean southern French lil’ tart! Bitty waist, peachy ass, and oh so sexy smart! Goddam, our chemistry was so flawless we got high on each other’s body odor. I folded like a pair of deuces. Total mangina. Yup. I was doomed. I lost myself in this gal, but I’m pretty observant. I saw how all my chivalry led to more chivalry and less reciprocity. Red Flags everywhere but I ignored them. The combo of her perfect bodytype and her intelligence smote me. Then the verbal abuse began. then the marginalization of my needs, ambitions, my values. I let this little woman treat me in ways I wouldn’t suffer from 5 monster biker thugs. So finally I got to a point where I had enough. I didn’t want to lose her but I realized I lost myself. Now I’m not proud of my method of ending it, I could have done better. ( I got pretty drunk and finally took the gloves off and verbally ripped her to shreds for the 1st time) I was tempted to regret it as soon as I did it, but finally my balls dropped and I said, “Fuck this shit! I’m a kick-ass man and I deserve better! Yeah, I cried and I hurt, but after about three weeks away from her the damnedest thing happened! I came back. I felt myself return to my own self. And fuck did I laugh at myself! I’m a romantic, and I will continue to be a romantic, so like I told the girl, ” Butterfly fights happen when a butterfly stays too long at one flower.” All you boys out there, LISTEN to Coach! Love ’em, be sweet and a gentleman, but always be able to walk away at any time, ALWAYS. Love your Manself enough to move the fuck on after the princess diamond lost her sparkle. Your purpose and self respect are NEVER negotiable. Thanks Corey, keep kickin’ ass and settin’ us pups straight!

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