Captain Save A Hoe Rides Again!

Why you must see women for who they are & not your fantasy of what you want them to be.

In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a viewer who has been following my work for about seven years. He’s very successful and lives in Mexico where he says it’s open season with fast women. He shares how he fell in love with a stripper thinking he could save her from that life. However, she dumped him and he chased her so hard, she went back to stripping to earn a living, but still contacts him often.

He still can’t believe she went back to that life. My comments are in bold italics like this below in the body of his email.

I got an email. This guy’s been following me for about seven years, he’s very successful, he saves lives, I guess, he works in the casino business, he lives in Mexico and he says it’s open season with fast women. So he kind of seems like he fashions himself as a Playboy. So he was kind of like the Members Only newsletter from yesterday where the guy married, got a nine-year-old daughter in Japan and he’s stationed in North Carolina. He’s been cheating on his wife, promising his side chick, who’s also in the military, he initially lied to her and said that they were separated in the process of getting a divorce. Then months later, he finally admitted that he lied to her, but he promised that he would leave. Then she says, “Alright, I’ll give you a chance, but you got to tattoo my name on your body.” So he did that, and then he kept going, “Oh, it’s not the right time to leave.” Then two years later, it appears she’s fucking her instructor now, I guess from one of the classes or schools that she’s in in the military. Character is destiny.

So we have another guy here whose character is kind of questionable. He says he fell in love with a former stripper. I guess he felt because of the money and the resources he had that he was going to take her away from that life and save her and they’re going to live happily ever after, but at some point, the power flipped. He started over-pursuing, he says his past caught up to him and just like the guy from yesterday, the one from yesterday, the Members Only article that was titled Say What You Mean & Mean What You Say Or She’ll Leave You. Just like yesterday, it’s like this guy seems to he kind of act like he’s a victim here, “Oh well, my past caught up with me.” He kind of leaves out a bunch of detail, but it almost sounds like or potentially he was screwing around on his supposed love of his life because he says she found out that he used to be a Playboy or his past caught up with him and she broke it off. Then she went back to stripping and he’s like, “How could she go back to stripping?”

What did Gerald Celente say? “Current events form future trends.” Not surprising if you’re just honest and you do the right things. It’s like all the shit that this these guys are going through, it’s totally avoidable.

Viewer Email:

Good morning Corey,

I have watched your videos for over seven years…

Seven years, dude.

…And also read your book. I apologize, one time…

Yeah, you’re not really a serious student, because you’ll see this guy really over pursues this stripper after thing goes sideways. So pretty clear that he doesn’t really know what he’s doing. He’s kind of flying blind, just cherry picking. He’s learning enough to basically get laid, hang out, have fun and hook up, but he’s not really able to progress things or cause things to last long term.

…Likely the reason I had these issues.

I run a million dollar company involving casinos and currently live in Mexico. We are located here and also in Las Vegas.

But living here in Mexico is open season, it’s provided an avenue for fast women.

So it’s an all-you-can-eat pussy buffet, basically.

I am still a “young” man in my late 30’s and decided to take this route to business after studying medicine. Women have been very plentiful.

As a result, I have seen many, many women, mostly fast women.

Well, probably because normal family-oriented women are able to sniff this guy out and realize he’s like totally full of shit.

It’s been a task to understand their mindset because many have children and are single mothers, but I did meet a woman that I fell in love with for over four years.

Well, if you read the book once and you even follow me, what did he say? Seven years! Seven years you’ve been following me and you only got around and read the book once, and who knows how long ago that was. So it’s no wonder you’re kind of bamboozled. You don’t know what the hell’s going on.

We built a life together, but my past caught up to me. She found out I was a playboy previously and decided to leave.

Really? The only reason she left is because she wasn’t in love with you. Now you being a Playboy previously, I don’t know what that means. Maybe you were lying to her. Your past caught up to you. Like, what does that mean? Somebody told her, “Oh yeah, he used to sleep around?” So more than likely, because you read the book once, her interest was low and what she really did was she blamed you supposedly being a Playboy in the past as the reason, but the reality is she left because her interest was low. Especially when we see how, as we get to it in the email, he way over-pursued.

I wanted to get her back, over-pursued and often times visited her home in the morning trying to convince her to come back to me.

Oh, so you’re a beggar and a pleader. “Stella, don’t leave me!” Or the Say Anything movie with beta male John Cusack? That dude’s got TDS off the fucking charts. He’s always crying on Twitter about Trump, “Ahh!”

This also involved constant texts and calls (From me).

It’s not going to work, dude.

This is what happens. You read the book once, you don’t really know what you’re doing, you get a little bit into a jam. I mean, as long as you weren’t cheating on her, if she’s just saying, “Well, the reason I’m leaving is because you were a Playboy in the past,” that’s the excuse. The real reason she’s leaving is because you were over-pursuing. I don’t think the over-pursuing started once she dumped you, because women don’t dump men they’re in love with. They dump men they don’t respect and they lost attraction for.

The pursuit was 70-30 from me…

Yeah, if you’re pursuing 70%, anytime it’s over 50%, you’re going to get friend-zoned. You’re going to dry her up. So when you’re pursuing 70%, you’re going to get nowhere and just spin your wheels. You follow me for seven years and you think it’s a good idea to do that? You’ve been a piss poor student.

…She was despondent, but her second job involves stripping. I visited the place to see her only to be escorted out, and told not to return again.

Yeah, so now you’re acting kind of stalker-ish. That tells me you’re showing up at her work and she’s getting upset and telling the bouncers to bounce you the fuck out.

Even though it’s a dog, you see how they are. It’s like, “Hey, you show me attention!” I’m trying to work here, Ocean. Thank you very much. You’re cute though. Everybody loves you.

She then came back to see me on multiple occasions, but we continually argue.

Well, men who understand women don’t argue with them, but if you read the book once, arguing is probably a way of life.

I ultimately decided not to pursue again because of her decision to return that type of work. I do well, no reason for her to exhibit that behavior.

You can’t turn a hoe into a housewife. It looks like you turned a hoe into a housewife, and when you acted like a beta male consistently because you didn’t know the book, she left you and blamed it on you being a Playboy in the past, but with you pursuing 70%, showing up at her work, showing up at her house every morning, that’s the opposite of what I teach. You’ve been a shitty student, and that is a you problem.

You got to participate in your own rescue, dude. There are no shortcuts to success. So you got into a jam, then you got emotionally jacked up and emotionally hijacked, and then you just were totally driven by fear. You started stalking her, and I assume at some point you backed off.

I bought her a vehicle previously and helped her child in school. I thought it was the right thing to do, promulgating an aspect of faith. However, as stupid as this sounds, I kept trying to pursue her, she obviously lost interest.

Well, that’s as predictable as the sun coming up in the East and setting in the West.

I wanted to share this because we all fall in love and love is generally blind.

Well, what happens is you were in love with the idea of who you wanted her to be. On top of that, your game sucked and push came to shove and you over-pursued too much, and she realized that you cared more about her than she did about you.

I mean, think about it. She left you to go back to stripping. That’s not a woman who’s in love with you. That’s a woman who’s lost attraction and respect and, quite frankly, don’t give a flying fuck what you think about it. So despite your money, your success and your resources, she was more emotionally invested in being a stripper and living the life she wanted so she didn’t have to deal with living under your thumb.

In this instance, it was false hope and trying to garner love with someone that would return to that type of work. I wanted to help her with the resources I have, but it seems untenable. Certainly I should leave, but it seems impossible.

Well, you can ignore reality, but you can’t ignore the consequences of ignoring reality. You never try to keep somebody that doesn’t want to keep you. You should be following what’s in 7 Principles To Get An Ex Back, actually read the book and take it seriously. Read it 10 to 15 times and actually apply it and she’ll probably come back. If she’s happy and she’s in love, she’ll be with you and you can take care of her, but if you start acting like a bitch again, she’ll probably go back to the titty bar.

This is not complicated. This is not rocket science. I mean, think about it. You’re a successful, well-off dude, and yet your girl would rather go be a stripper than be with you. That’s total lack of respect, and she doesn’t love you.

We had true love, this is not a joke…

Well, you may have had it at one time, but it’s certain she don’t love you now.

…Built many experiences together, one of the few women in my life I have loved in this manner.

Well, you love the idea of who you wanted her to be. That’s reality.

Certainly time to move on, but how does one do this with everything sacrificed? She still contacts me daily.

Also, I am Members Only member. It’s a pleasure being part of your community.

Thanks for your time,

Bob

Well, if you are serious about moving on, you got to say, “Look, you got to let me move on with my life and stop contacting me.” If she doesn’t adhere to that, then you’re going to have to block her number, get a different number, get a burner phone or whatever, and move on. If you know you don’t want to be with her, why waste your time? Because life is going by and the amount of time you got left on Earth is going slowly, like sands through the hourglass. So are the days of our lives. Time’s running out, dude. For all of us. We’re all dead people walking. So are you OK going to your grave, not experiencing? That’s definitely something to think about, but the book is not going to help you if you’re going to do the opposite.

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